...because folx, that's a power differential

    • crime [she/her, any]
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      4 years ago

      No cause there's a power differential between the original copy and the clone. The only ethical relationship is two clones of a separate person dating each other

      • Vostok [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        But then one of the clones will still benefit more from certain societal norms - clearly two clones of the same person is the only way 🙄

  • a_jug_of_marx_piss [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    There can also be power dynamics between families, looks or generations, so just to be safe you should only date your identical twin sibling.

    • evilgiraffemonkey [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Good points...unfortunately, my twin is more jacked than me. I gotta hit the gym if I don't want to be single.

  • LangdonAlger [any]
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    4 years ago

    Gdi, the auto refresh deleted my comment when I was in the middle of typing it

    What if you're a poor white man dating a rich black woman?

      • LangdonAlger [any]
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        4 years ago

        $100% people do say it. Remember seeing it on a wheatpaste poster asking for stolen bikes back in Oakland years ago

      • Nagarjuna [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        I just got an email from the Duwamish tribe that used it sincerely.

      • Fakename_Bill [he/him]
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        That tweet implies it was a thing before that particular joke, otherwise the tweet wouldn't make sense. I get that you used it as a joke though

        • evilgiraffemonkey [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          I think it's just making fun of libs/leftists who insist on saying womxn and latinx, but maybe people genuinely say it

          • Fakename_Bill [he/him]
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            4 years ago

            I am a white guy, so my thoughts on the matter are irrelevant, but "latinx" has always seemed a bit weird to me. (For some context I am fluent in Spanish). It sounds like it's a term that was invented by an English-speaker. The way it's typically pronounced in English is "la-teen-eks," which sounds awkward already, but in Spanish the letter X is equis, pronounced "eh-kees," which is two syllables and sounds even more awkward than it does in English. I definitely recognize the need for a gender-neutral term, but it seems a bit colonial to use such an English-influenced term.

            If any latinx comrades have anything to add though, listen to them not me

              • hopefulmulberry [none/use name]
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                4 years ago

                I’ve heard that in Spanish latinx is pronounced as if the x were an e

                That's mistaken, there's latinx and latine and only the second has an obvious pronunciation.

                They also mentioned that the -x is preferable to -@ because it includes non-binary.

                I don't even know under what logic this could be true. What I have seen is people saying that these neologistical endings in general are preferable to the more traditional -a/o or -o/a, because these imply that you can be in a category who ends with an -o or an -a, whereas the other ones don't.

                I think the reason -x is used instead of -e is because adverbs often end in -e.

                I don't think people think in these terms. There's lots of nouns that end with -e.

              • Fakename_Bill [he/him]
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                I just asked the #en-español channel on the discord about it. I'm interested to hear the perspectives of native speaker comrades.

                  • Fakename_Bill [he/him]
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                    4 years ago

                    One person responded, and says that it sounds a bit weird to him too, and it's been a topic of debate for a while because Spanish doesn't naturally have gender-neutral endings. He says he prefers to just omit the gender-defining vowel, like "amigs" instead of "amigos" or "amigas." The use of @ is also common, like "amig@s," which I've seen from my Spanish professors before. Use of the vowel 'e' is also becoming more common.

                      • Fakename_Bill [he/him]
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                        I don't know how the @ is pronounced, I've only seen it in writing. So it seems purely typographical. But so is substituting the X in for the gendered vowel in most cases. I've only ever heard the X pronounced in "latinx" (in my relatively limited experience as a non-native speaker)

  • Lerios [hy/hym]
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    Never date outside your class

    ... based?