Hope it was a great week everyone. Hopefully this one is even better. cat-trans

  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    Just thinking about how I've never felt comfortable without a shirt on. Any time I've ever gone to a pool I'm always wearing a shirt. Going shirtless as a guy just feels wrong. Like I shouldn't let people see me like that.

    I wonder if I'll ever feel comfortable in less than guy shorts and a t shirt. I feel like I'd like to, there are so many cute outfits :sicko-wistful: but I don't know.

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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      4 months ago

      I've always thought that rules and expectations against topless women was stupid.

      Personally, I didn't like being topless in public, but that's mostly just because I was obese, but I've rarely wore a shirt in a pool. At home, I've always been a fan of minimal clothes (due to autistic sensory issues with clothes, maybe?), so I'm still topless there. But I'll eventually have to worry about when it'll be considered inappropriate for me to be topless around others. Friday, I'm expected to go swimming at my parent's, whom I'm still not really out to. I don't think there's been any noticeable changes yet, so being topless shouldn't be a problem in theory but still not sure how uncomfortable it'll be.