Pride’s over everyone! It’s now illegal to be gay again.

  • Thallo [love/loves]
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    5 months ago

    The idea of people looking at me and seeing a crossdressing dude fills me with a dread I can’t describe.

    I felt this for a really long time

    • Tomboymoder [she/her, pup/pup's]
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      5 months ago

      I just live in a state of ignorance for how much I do or don’t pass for the most part because it’s more bareable than potentially confirming my worst fears.

      Some day I will have to, but idk when that will be.

      • Thallo [love/loves]
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        5 months ago

        I don't pass. I won't ever pass.

        To me, it's more about communicating visually and through mannerisms how you want to be treated. Or outright telling someone.

        I don't think people "tolerate" gendering you correctly. Many people are just happy to do that