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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    4 months ago
    well

    I am pretty lucky, and I also exclusively date t4t so there is that. Mostly what I meant was that dating other trans and often autistic people, the navigating-social-norms part was not that difficult, y'know? I also never used dating apps, just happened to meet people, mostly online but sometimes not. The Dating General Megathread tells me that apps are fucked.

    Can relate to the being-isolated thing, if my wife did not exist and I had to date now I would probably just go to coffee shops or bars and sit around awkwardly, awaiting a beautiful autistic lesbian hitting on me. That would not be a good strat I don't think, so y'know, it does suck.

    • sneak100
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      21 days ago

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      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        4 months ago
        spoiler

        It's a bit, a lot of The Boys post in the general mega about their dating struggles, it is a thing. Death to dating apps!!!

        You gotta get them local trans autistics, trans autistics make the world go round soviet-huff Hope it works out for you, it's tough meeting people but worth it.

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      4 months ago
      UH OH EVERYONE, EGGNOG IS ASKING INVASIVE QUESTIONS AGAIN

      I also exclusively date t4t

      The way you say that makes it sound like you are currently dating, are you poly? It usually sounds like you aren't but every now and again you say something like that and thonk

      awaiting a beautiful autistic lesbian hitting on me.

      Okay god, I know I've been bad and all but timmy-pray please this is all I want for christmas.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        4 months ago
        No this is rad, I am very open to questions, I have a habit of talking abt myself y'know!!!

        Lol I say it present-tense because like, I am t4t and will never not be. I am not poly, I've done it before but it's not really for me I think. I would adore getting headpats and affection from several partners, but I only really have the emotional bandwidth to fully engage with one person. Plus how many gay autistic transfemme techhead wlw-slop-reading people am I gonna find really? Plus plus my wife is strictly monogamous which is cool with me.

        Oh no BountifulEggnog has been bad bridget-smug We do love our beautiful autistic lesbians, don't we folks????

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          Okay cool, I know you usually are up for questions. That all makes a lot of sense, cool you tried it though.