Final Fantasy XI
Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!
During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.
Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.
He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.
However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”
After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!
I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!
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At some point for your friend to actually get better (whatever that means for him), he's going to need to want to change. Why would he right now? He's got everything he could want. He wants to change the timeline because he wants to stay longer because you do a lot for him and he doesn't want to figure out a new support system.
So long as we live in the system we do, he will need earn money or to be a decent housemate if he wants a place to live. There's only so long people will tolerate someone who is sort of just an asshole as a tenant/housemate. It is wrong to not to do something like helping with cleaning and expect to be treated like someone's precious child, or to seek supports or a job.
This kind of deep depression is a very selfish mental illness. It makes people selfish and it sucks to admit, their world shrinks down to a very narrow horizon to just themsleves and not even their own personal care like their own hygeine (e.g. brushing teeth, showering, eating healthy). It sucks to watch someone do this when you're on the outside, because the steps needed are so actionable and clear (from outside). Some people figure it out while being shown some grace, some people figure it out after consequences are imminent or happening, some people don't and it takes a long time if ever.
Don't light yourself on fire keeping someone else warm