https://twitter.com/DeTahmineh/status/1785036417913000140
"Don't date in the organization" should be at least the first hour of any orgs on-boarding meeting.
It's a hard problem. Joining orgs to meet people to sleep with is obvious wrecker behavior but often orgs are where you meet people most compatible with you. Every political party, even mainstream ones, has lots of people sleeping with each other. Humans are gonna catch feelings, especially in leftist orgs where trauma bonding from violent interactions with cops is possible. I don't have the solution really.
Word. I don't think there is a solution. People working together for long periods of time, some of them are gonna bang and some of them are going to break up. Idk what to do except try to make sure that no one person is a critical point of failure, and
anyone who is serial dating their way through the whole org.I don't have the solution really.
ok, hear me out: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moiety_(kinship)
In such cases, the community usually has unilineal descent (either patri- or matrilineal) so that any individual belongs to one of the two moiety groups by birth, and all marriages take place between members of opposite moieties.
the obvious solution is to restrict relationships to being between members of the ancom moiety and the ML moiety. then you're also addressing sectarianism or something.
Gonna write a remake of Romeo and Juliet, but the Montagues and the Capulets are replaced with the ML and ancom moieties
Dialectics but with extra fucking, I like it, Engels would be proud.
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Yeah that's actually brilliant and we should implement it immediately. f
Joining orgs to meet people to sleep with is obvious wrecker behavior
joining orgs to advertise your onlyfans is still okay right?
Joining orgs to meet people to sleep with is obvious wrecker behavior
this is like IASIP episode 2 lol
Kinda hard when so many western leftist orgs have fun events meant to attract young people.
"I can't believe people treat the DSA like a dating club! We made it clear to all the horny young people at our monthly DSA bowling tournament and karaoke mixer that inner party dating is discouraged! Why do they keep wanting to fuck each other after the quarterly bbq???"
Please fill out your C-01 form before making out with the person you've been working on a project with for three months who you've come to know and respect more than any other person during your long hours together.
There's really nothing for it. At most you try to make sure that institutional knowledge is spread around enough that a breakup can't wreck the org.
I don't think it should be absolutely forbidden, just openly communicated about when it does (inevitably) happen so there are no surprises and the (again, inevitable) drama is minimized. Ain't no way you're gonna get a bunch of young people who work closely together often not to fuck, if you forbid it they're just gonna keep silent about it.
I met my long term partner within an org, this attitude is basically just leave the women at home
This is absolutely correct. Undercover UK police use sex with female org members to get in with the group. Often even having children with them to maintain the pretence.
doesn’t this like not really prevent that though? Couldn’t they just find someone they know is a member of an org and do the same thing, then join the org after (and pretend it was organically done because of their partner?)
They could, but in all the cases that have come to light they always start attending events and meet their victims there.
“These young folks are too focused on important things instead of mashing their genitals into each other”
If students WERE having sex at these protests, you'd hear a bunch of complaints about how they're not taking this seriously and it's all just a big party to them.
: "Clean up after yourself? Transparency in communication? Respect one another? Be disciplined!? WHAT ARE WE, A BUNCH OF ASIANS!?!?!?"We're so cooked as a country.
The front page of Dunk Tank having not but two posts about Zionists chastising pro-Palestinian protesters for being too chaste says a lot about the Zionist mindset.
Zionism is stored in the balls!
are you man enough to save my husbands cum?
They're really scraping the bottom of the barrel to try and make the students look wrong.
don't have sex in the tents at the protests
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOW COULD HAMAS DO THIS NOOOOOOOOOO WHYYYYUY
sounds great, too many organizing efforts are ruined by people smashing and then causing drama with one another tbh especially when folks are young
Wash your ass, it's comradery vs washing your ass is privileged bourgeois decadence
not washing your ass is olfactory oppression of others with the sense of smell.
Is this person really saying people should be fucking in public at a protest????
clean up after yourself and our space; be considerate of hygiene
confirmed Hamasdo they mean you shouldn't have sex at the protest or like... in general?!??? how do you even tell someone who came to the protest has sex regularly? can they smell it or something? it has to just be a "don't fuck at the protest" rule right? it's absolutely absurd to suggest anything else
i might be something about avoiding having to deal with the possible fallout of bad break ups between organisers who need to keep working together
That makes sense, but even then they wouldn’t be able to enforce or prevent people from having sex on their own free time (away from the protest entirely), so it’s not at all what the tweet poster was trying to imply
They're in tents. It's pretty easy to hear someone fucking when they're in a tent.
Of course you can tell if someone’s having sex at the fucking (but not literally fucking) protest, but you wouldn’t be able to just… ask people to never have sex Ever, you wouldn’t be able to tell if they had sex at home or whatever
how dedicated are they to not going back to the dorms? Might be able to smell it. The quad has no showers.
Not disagreeing with you, just saying. Pretty sure it means "don't give ammo to the zionists by letting them portray it as a sex party or whatever they come up with if they succesfully record tent fucking".
