I don't know what I should do and this website is basically what goes for my social support system these days, so I'd like some advice please.

So I drive a very old car that until recently I didn't use much. It's from 2003 and it has less than 150k miles on it. It has a check engine light that I learned today comes from a tiny crack in the (a?) cylinder head gasket that's causing me to lose coolant. They quoted me 3-4k USD to replace it.

If they said 2k I might have been able to melt my debit and credit cards at the same time MAYBE. But 4k I need a loan for.

It's possible that this place is just a ripoff. I'm partially just talking this out right now so I should really get on the phone and find out if I can find something that won't break me.

Part of why it seems like it might be a ripoff is that I can find the parts (according to my completely uneducated and untrained figuring) on autozone.com for like 250 bucks. Maybe I can just do it myself? Maybe my landlord has tools? Or I can rent some maybe?

The guy at the car doctor said that if I wasn't going to do the repair I should probably trade it in sooner than later while it still holds value. Down this path I might really start crying about needing an adult though. A whole branching tree of decisions to make afterwards.

And to bring up an added complication: part of why I don't have a solid chuck of the downpayment of a house on hand to deal with this is that I was semi-homeless up until three months ago (friday is the anniversary). A downstream complication to that is that I never received my auto registration renewal from the state of CA. And by the time I realized it was a thing I should have had to deal with already, my shit expired. I'm pretty sure they're going to make me do a smog check which requires that I don't have an engine light on. So it's extra fucked to be driving with it right now. Oh and my insurance dropped me over a dispute over late charges I refuse to pay because they didn't tell me I owed them money and sent shit to the wrong address over and over.

So I guess an informal poll:

A: I shop around for a mechanic that's willing to fix my cars for the clothes off my back + fill up my credit card again ( T_T ) IF I CAN FIND ONE (and if not I guess take out a loan)

B: I buy the parts/find the tools and see if it's possible to do it myself, on like, a weekend.

C: I throw in the towel on my car and try to find a replacement somehow despite being broke enough to be here

D: Something I'm not thinking of.

I fucking hate this. I hate cars. I wish I could bike. I wish I could take transit. I hate having this single point of failure in my life that can completely sweep my still shaky legs out from under me, which I just now finally got up onto. I need advice because this decision could literally be the fucking end of the world for me. Yay.

edit: the specific car is a 2003 Suzuki Areio

  • nat_turner_overdrive [he/him]
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    11 days ago

    Hate to be the bearer of not great news here: Replacing a head gasket is feasible for a non mechanic but probably not as a first job. It's going to take removing a lot of hoses, wires, and fasteners, torque specs and torque wrenches, and if done wrong things could become more expensive. They are correct that the engine is on borrowed time if you keep driving it. Can you share the make, model, and engine so we can get a little more specific?

      • nat_turner_overdrive [he/him]
        hexbear
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        11 days ago

        Further research suggests the timing cover on this motor is a pain in the ass to remove and I'm seeing suggestions that the best way to do this is pulling the motor which definitely places this job outside the scope of a first big job, and goes a long way to explaining the price you were quoted.

          • nat_turner_overdrive [he/him]
            hexbear
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            11 days ago

            I'd say it can't hurt to try, I've never used any pour-in sealants (I'm just a shadetree guy, I don't take my vehicles to mechanics but I've never been trained as one and often my troubleshooting involves replacing a lot of parts before I find the real problem and I often outsource brainpower to my mechanical engineer friend) but I'm pretty skeptical of them. For something like a leaky radiator the various sealant goops for radiators are not so bad, worst case you kind of gum up your coolant passages in the block and have to keep topping off the coolant. For headgaskets, there's just so much heat and pressure, you know? Worth a try but probably not going to fix it.

          • dannoffs [he/him]
            hexbear
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            11 days ago

            They do seem to work:

            https://youtu.be/q3_kDiQb7lE?si=HzUt--VIlwJw9gZY

            • nat_turner_overdrive [he/him]
              hexbear
              2
              11 days ago

              This is surprising, I guess the modern stuff has been improved. Looks like this is a solid bet, better than trying to pull the motor in your driveway to do the gasket job for sure

            • bleepbloopbop [they/them]
              hexbear
              1
              11 days ago

              the ?si=xxxxxxx is a tracking id btw that they use to map social networks and link sharing.

              link without tracking: https://youtu.be/q3_kDiQb7lE

      • nat_turner_overdrive [he/him]
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        11 days ago

        OK, the good news is that looks like a pretty accessible head. You're still going to have to remove/disconnect both the intake and exhaust manifolds and you'll need a shop manual or just torque specs off the internet, as well as a torque wrench (plus all the other tools). If you have access to a decent tool set and a little experience turning wrenches, this might be a one weekend job. Alternatively, find someone local who turns wrenches for fun who is willing to help - might even be able to find someone in a local left org.

        edit: off the top of my head I would think you could buy a complete tool set from like harbor freight or the local equivalent, a decent torque wrench (I like Tekton for cheap and reliable) and the HG plus any other incidentals like a new PCV since you're in there, for under a thousand dollars.

  • chickentendrils [any, comrade/them]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    There's usually one head gasket, replacing it involves taking the engine apart. At least in half. Still seems like a bit of a high quote but I'm not well versed there.

    • dannoffs [he/him]
      hexbear
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      11 days ago

      There's usually one head gasket

      Cries in Subaru

  • dannoffs [he/him]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    Replacing head gaskets is almost all labor, and depending on your car 3-4k could definetly be a reasonable price. If it's a small leak, you could try some head gasket sealer as a temporary fix.

    • chickentendrils [any, comrade/them]
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      If it's an external leak I'd give sealer a shot, eg if coolant is just leaking down the outside of the engine block. Not so good if finding coolant in the oil dipstick vessel or weird colored exhaust.

      • chickentendrils [any, comrade/them]
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        I'd definitely use the pour in sealer before paying thousands to fix a car as described, by the way. Odds are it'll last a while. Just don't use one that needs to be run through the engine for more time than the engine will run before overheating. I saw one with a 50min run time on the engine after adding it to the coolant. It's kind of opaque basically just chemicals that'll harden when they get as hot as any exhaust leaking into the coolant will heat them, so it should effectively clog the leak and nothing else.

  • edge [he/him]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    Part of why it seems like it might be a ripoff is that I can find the parts (according to my completely uneducated and untrained figuring) on autozone.com for like 250 bucks.

    Get a quote that tells you the separate prices for parts and labor. If the labor cost is doable, ask if you can provide your own parts.

    • abc [he/him, comrade/them]
      hexbear
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      11 days ago

      This, OP. Definitely shop around too and be up front about it. For every 10 scummy mechanics out there, there's like an equal number of kind hearted ones.

      • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
        hexbear
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        11 days ago

        I love when I find a true like artisan mechanic who knows their shit, doesn't overbill, and developing a rapport. Those relationships can last decades. Bonus points if they got a cat or dog that just hangs around the shop.

  • diegeticscream[all]🔻@lemmygrad.ml
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    11 days ago

    What color is the oil on the dipstick? Is the leak on the outside of the engine, or inside the engine? If the leak isn't into the oil, you may be able to put it off for a bit. If it's into the oil it probably shouldn't be driven until it can be fixed.

    A head gasket has the potential to be bad news bears. That sounds like an unsurprising quote, but I'd shop around to a few mechanics to see what they say.

    You may be able to download the Hanes manual for your make and model of car, but they'll possibly also have it for sale at your local Auto store.

    I'm a semi-competent top of the engine home mechanic, and I'd feel intimidated by this.

    If you've done car stuff, you might be able to do it. Look through several different versions of the process, make sure you have all the parts (and a torque wrench and specs), and plan on it taking at least a day or two more than you think.

    Alternatively, you may be able to get a personal loan from your credit union or maybe a balance transfer card to avoid interest on this for a bit. Take that with a grain of salt, 'cause I'm still paying off credit card debt from stuff like that.

    Edit: you'd 100% need a private garage or space to work on this, you'd need to take a day or two to work on it and would need to leave it partially disassembled.

  • radio_free_asgarthr [he/him, comrade/them]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    What is the make and model of the car? I can try to see what's involved. I have a similar car situation and try to fix as much as I can myself. If there is that much of a disparity between the cost of the parts and what the mechanic is quoting, that usually is an indication that most of the cost is labor, which means it takes a lot of time and work to do the repair. This is quite common with a lot of coolant stuff as the coolant lines/radiator would need to be drained and then often a lot of surrounding stuff under the hood needs to be taken out to get at the broken stuff.

    • radio_free_asgarthr [he/him, comrade/them]
      hexbear
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      11 days ago

      Some googling seems to confirm that the replacement parts are cheap and all the expense comes from the repair being complex and taking a lot of time. Though some sites indicate that usual expense is 1-3k, though that might have been an old figure.

      • dannoffs [he/him]
        hexbear
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        11 days ago

        That's definetly old. $2k for a head gasket replacement is the bottom end these days.

  • principalkohoutek [none/use name]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    I've done home mechanic work up to timing belt changes, but a head gasket is where I would throw in the towel. If you haven't done similar work on a car before, you'll probably get overwhelmed and risk taking it apart and not being able to get it back together again. The price sounds about right unfortunately; you could maybe "find a guy" would do it for ~$1-2k but with no guarantee of quality or money back. You can't sell a car in California with a check engine light or without smog, so you're really up a creek there. The state might have a program where they pay you $1-1.5k to retire the car.

    • dannoffs [he/him]
      hexbear
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      11 days ago

      Yeah, the best option in almost all mechanic situation is to "have a guy"

  • farting_weedman [none/use name]
    hexbear
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    11 days ago

    That’s a little on the high side but not far off. If you had like a Subaru or something that’s a pain in the ass to work on then I’d understand.

    Shop around a little, but more important than price is quality. A head gasket is the part that allows the two halves of the engine to seal up and contain explosions as well as correctly conduct oil and coolant to where they each need to be. It’s an important part and replacing it will have at the very least the whole ass engine took apart.

    So make sure you trust the people doing the work and keep an eye on your coolant while you’re going around getting quotes.

    Long term? You gotta have a car, and if you can only have one it needs to be newer and in better shape. If you have to have old cars, you gotta have two so you can not be fucked when one goes down.

    You know if you can have a second 20 year old car. If you can’t, try to climb the years ladder a little once this one’s repair is paid off.

  • rootsbreadandmakka [he/him]
    hexbear
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    Shop around. I’m in one of the most expensive areas of the country and I just got a shitton of work done on my car for 1500. I don’t know how replacing a gasket compares to the work I needed done, but 3-4k sounds like a lot. Though I’m also pretty sure my place undercharges me because I know them.

    It can’t hurt to shop around though. If everyone gives you the same price then I guess that’s what it is, and you can decide what to do from there. Just go in a couple places and ask for an estimate.

  • macerated_baby_presidents [he/him]
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    B: Some head gaskets are hard, some are easy. Depends on the car. For instance here's a guy doing a head gasket in a parking lot. But some cars really have the engine crammed in there. If you have some general mechanical aptitude, ability to follow instructions, and you are able to find a service manual for your car - it is worth spending actual money for this if you can't find one for free, it'll give you the step by step of how to do this repair - it might be worth scoping this out. You are operating at a disadvantage because it looks like you have like a "normal" car that doesn't have enthusiast forums that can help you through it. I would expect this job to take a noob at least two full workdays, but you might realize that you need parts or something midway through and have to wait for shipping. The bigger the job, the more likely you realize you need to buy a part or tool midway through. Budget to have the car out of commission for a week.

    Additional note - sometimes head gaskets just fail on their own, but sometimes they fail because, e.g., the engine overheats and warps the block. Once it's open, a mechanic will hopefully do some investigation to figure out why it failed to make sure it doesn't happen again.

    C: It could be fun to do this yourself but you should strongly consider selling the car and buying another one. I know that's tough in CA with the smog regulations; here in Chicago sometimes flippers will buy a car and not register it so you might find a buyer like that who doesn't care if it can pass smog right away. If you sell the car and buy another one, I strongly suggest doing both via private sale, Facebook marketplace or craigslist. Better prices than dealer trade-ins because there's no middleman. The downside is it takes more of your time to do the sales. Around here you can get a beater car for like $1500 and you'd probably get like $800 for the Suzuki. That would be a lot cheaper than paying for the repair.

    D: Figure out if this is actually going to break the car or if you can ignore it. Head gaskets can fail in several different places. If it's leaking coolant or oil to the outside, who cares just top up the coolant or oil and go about your day. If it's leaking coolant into the oil, the contaminated oil will not lubricate effectively and you'll fuck up the engine by driving on it. Etc etc.

  • bleepbloopbop [they/them]
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    did they tell you what the code was exactly? I'm struggling to figure out what code would be thrown for a minor head gasket leak on a 2003 vehicle... Misfire code would have to be a pretty bad leak, and low coolant idk, seems like a 2003 wouldn't even have a sensor for that, I know cars I've owned didn't. It's possible they're bullshitting you, or that they're telling the truth but the code is unrelated.

    Whatever it is, I would bet you could get the code to go away long enough to pass smog, though I'm not very familiar with CA rules. It would eventually get worse though. I would get them to give you the exact trouble codes it threw, or take it someplace else that will read them for free/cheap. Not knowing what those are really changes my answer

    As far as doing it yourself: it's a big job but with enough time and tools and patience and shit you probably could. The thing that will drive up the cost/PITA factor even more though, is that if you're doing the head gasket you really should take the head to a machine shop to get milled perfectly flat again, to give it the best possible chance of lasting as long as possible. The last time I did this, I ended up having shot valves in the head that had to be replaced as well (also a suzuki coincidentally), but yours probably aren't that bad.

    If you were in the rust belt I'd be telling you to consider throwing in the towel on the car, but in CA its more likely to be worth fixing, as it won't rust out from under you in the next 2-5 years lol.

    But I would HEAVILY encourage you to check for yourself what the codes are, get some second opinions, and look for signs of head gasket leaks (coolant in the cylinder will cause it the exhaust to have white smoke, coolant in the oil will make it lighter and more opaque like a milkshake, and probably leave a residue on the oil cap).

    Either way I don't think there's much sense in throwing it away until/unless you have to.

    Oh, and in addition to the retirement program another commenter mentioned, there is also a program where the state will pay up to $1200 towards an emissions related repair. Its a bureaucratic process and unclear if your repair would qualify but it seems like it would if it caused you to fail smog. I think you'd have to take it for the smog test and have it fail before you could apply for that. link: https://www.bar.ca.gov/consumer/consumer-assistance-program/index#otheroptions

    • dannoffs [he/him]
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      11 days ago

      If you go get your car smogged, they'll tell you the codes. I don't know where in California OP is, but around me most smog places give you 30 days after a failed test to bring the car back for a free retest.

      • bleepbloopbop [they/them]
        hexbear
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        11 days ago

        Good info. Sounds like OP should take it in for that smog test, considering that's also a prereq for getting state assistance to repair or retire the car

    • AntiOutsideAktion [he/him]
      hexagon
      hexbear
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      I found the O'Reilly VERI SCAN diagnostic printout I got before my first round of mechanic visits. The code is P0128 "Coolant Thermostat". "Code P0128 indicates that the Coolant Thermostat had a fault (Coolant Temp Below Thermostat Regulating Temperature) for a predetermined period of time."

      The first time I took it to the shop they did the 'most likely solution' of replacing the thermostat. When the engine light came back on and I took it back, they said they verified it was the gasket by "putting pressure on it and seeing that the pressure on the inside went back up"

  • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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    Is there a D option to do some janky shit that will hold you over for a while using like silicone or jb weld? Nothing permanent but that will let you kick the can down the road and pass inspection. Asking the mechanics in the group.

    Edit: here's a quora thread with some info ranging from pour some special sealant into it to it's not so bad and you can do it with a friend

    https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-easiest-and-cheapest-way-to-fix-a-cracked-head-gasket

    Edit: @AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net it looks like pour in head gasket sealer might be your option D

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q3_kDiQb7lE&feature=youtu.be

    • Findom_DeLuise [she/her, they/them]
      hexbear
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      11 days ago

      janky shit that will hold you over for a while using like silicone or jb weld

      Probably something more like Permatex form-a-gasket here, if the actual part is too expensive, but that also might not hold the pressure from the manifold.

      • dannoffs [he/him]
        hexbear
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        11 days ago

        Head gaskets are cheap, it's the labor in completely dropping the engine that's expensive.

  • Abracadaniel [he/him]
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    11 days ago

    Gotta agree with what I see as the general sentiment here and recommend option C. This is a major repair job.