Same same, legit everyone would be happier if cisnormativity were not weighing down on them constantly =) Which is also a societal thing to some extent of course, but you can shift your mindset in a lot of ways that help.

Proliferating the Destruction of Cisnormativity

(Also the bit you added about being a "total gender gremlin who leans futch tomboy" is so real waow)