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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    4 months ago
    more weird and uncomfortable shit

    How are you even supposed to know what to feel about various fuckin genital configurations without the sexual motivation? It seems like a lot of people have that as a driving force for whatever anatomy choices they make, but if I ask me about the subject, nothing above the brainstem with regards to this. I assume I have feelings about it, maybe this is some kind of trauma block again. I don't even know.

    • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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      4 months ago
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      I know of at least one ace enby who picked zero depth vaginoplasty. No need for sex, so no need for a cavity. One of my friends is similar but she's not ace (also hasnt had it yet). Just not interested in being penetrated.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        4 months ago
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        Huh, so 90% of the issue just gets discarded? Interesting. I guess they'd probably use the sensitive parts to construct the clitoris anyway?

        • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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          4 months ago
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          Yeah same as penile inversion, the clitoroplasty is the same for both just retains some of the old glans and moves stuff around. You can even get a cavity in later if you change your mind. You still get labia and everything, looks just like a bog standard birth vagina.

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            4 months ago
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            Woah really? I did not know you had the choice to get a cavity put in later, banger. Cool!

          • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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            4 months ago
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            WAIT YOU CAN GET LABIA WITH BOTTOM SURGERY?!

            I uh, did not know that. The (handful) of pictures I'd seen didn't appear to have any/visible inner labia. That's pretty cool. Also being able to get depth later is pretty cool. I assumed it was one of those, pick now and forever hold you peace kinda things.

    • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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      4 months ago

      Yeah, I used to think I wanted to keep “it” for that reason, but now I don’t care, but that could change. It’s hard to know what to do when my feelings can change so greatly.