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  • iridaniotter [she/her, she/her]
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    6 months ago

    Well, do you want the changes? HRT is also for pursuing a body you want, not just changing a body you hate.

      • Thallo [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        Oooh, I see, you're like me haha.

        I know it can be really tough. I was just posting about it today in the mega.

        We'll find a plan that works for us cuddle

        You probably don't even know what you want at the moment. I think that can take some time. You can DM me if you ever wanna chat about it

        • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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          6 months ago

          Thanks, but I’m not the same? No offense taken, I just never want to be a man or have a lot of masculine stuff, but I don’t want to be too feminine either, but sometimes I find myself forcing myself to be? Idk, I’m well enough, I just can’t make decisions.

          • Thallo [she/her]
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            6 months ago

            Oh sorry, I guess I misinterpreted what you meant when you said you "like both"

            I don’t want to be too feminine either, but sometimes I find myself forcing myself to be? Idk, I’m well enough, I just can’t make decisions.

            Well, regardless of gender. I definitely feel this in my bones.

            • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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              6 months ago

              Yeah <3. “Both” as in stuck in the middle [but leaning a little fem]. While I can vary my outfits and my hair can be androgynous, hormones seem like such a binary decision.

              • Thallo [she/her]
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                6 months ago

                Well, you're in good company, I think lea-smile

                I'm with you on hormones, but the people here are wild and can give you really specific advice once you have goals in mind.

                For instance, I was thinking about HRT but didn't want to grow breasts, and that's apparently possible!

                Anyway, I don't wanna lecture you on stuff you already know. You've got it under control!

                • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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                  6 months ago

                  I'm with you on hormones, but the people here are wild and can give you really specific advice once you have goals in mind.

                  I know a lot of sciency stuff, but zone out when I try to read those things, lol.

                  You've got it under control!

                  Yeah..

        • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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          6 months ago

          Yeah? I’ll do some more research, but basically I’d like fat redistribution and to keep my muscles, and I feel fine, but what if changes in skin and smell make me feel better, and I don’t know if I like not having emotions, but now they’re too much, and…

          I’m indecisive. Love analysis paralysis. Thankfully I don’t let it stress me out too much, but I still don’t know what to do.

          Also like to note that I’m scared of growing up either way, because older people are gross and I’m not.