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I get it. Sorry if I contributed to that. Honestly I feel shitty enough in my position and reading her comments... you know. I don't blame her for posting them but they did cause me to struggle. Sorry I had to inflict that struggle on you.
I try not to feel envious of other people in the mega but damn you make it hard.
I really do not feel like engaging with a lot of this, sorry. I understand what you are saying though.
Well sure trans women can get there (to where I can roll out of bed passing, even if not fully up to beauty standards. Like I do now with looking like a guy), with a whole bunch of work. I certainly need a whole bunch of work before I get to that point.
Also tbh I haven't read all of her recent comments so maybe she clarified and isn't saying what I am (and tbh I think we are talking about slightly different things)
You don't have to apologise to me, I'm here yapping cause I wanna help, and I'm happy to. I Love My Trans Comrades, even when they have brainworms or whatever, don't care tbh.
Haha sorry if it's any consolation I still get my wife to go over my upper lip and pull black hairs now and then...
Yeah that's okay, no worries. Can leave it where it is, talk to me some other time, whatever's cool.
Most of that work I think comes from hormones, your hair, your presentation in terms of dress imo. Which is all stuff you either just wait for the effects of or can freely change. There's no reason transfemmes cannot roll out of bed and go be women just as the cis do, like sneak100 said it's the same ways of passing even if it takes more work for transfemmes. The extra work sucks, would be cool if you could just do it now but whadda ya do.
Well she did not specify what exactly it is that makes her sisters inherently womanly in the morning but not her it's brainworms plain and simple.
Don't be, I'm glad not everyone here is in the exact situation I am, and I'm happy for you.
Yea I'd agree that's most of it. That just feels like a lot right now being pre everything. It would be very cool. I'll get there though. With some work :)
Thank you seeing some younger trans people here is really cool, my hope is that someday the majority of trans people will realise by their teens.
It is a lot it's a whole process, it took me nearly a year from "im trans" -> actually getting HRT. You can also take it fully at your own speed though, you will get there
God if we can live in a world where gender exploration is open and accepted enough for that to happen, what a better world that will be.
THE DREAM
Seeing older trans people here is really cool I honestly do not know what I would do without you/them. It wouldn't be as good as it is that's for sure
I wonder how long it will take me to get hrt. I suppose I already know I'm trans, don't I?
Yeah it's rad, I love how diverse the userbase in trans mega is honestly. Makes everything better
Uh it depends on where you are, best case you can go to an informed consent clinic or planned parenthood to get prescribed. And yes you do =)
The diversity is so good.
Less of a practical question and more of a "when are you going to come out and try, eggnog?" question. I will remember how to get hrt though :)
Looking at it again I have no idea how I expected that to be communicated.
Happens to the best of us =) I know you probably don't feel ready, but it might not hurt to look at options in your area, if ya wanna. So you're prepped when you do feel ready.
If you need help finding resources, lmk
Thank you! I appreciate it so much. Maybe I will soon, or at least know what resources I might have access to.