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    • Yor [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      I've waited on enough transition related stuff to know that less than 100 days is pretty much no time at all lol

    • Yor [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      recently someone showed their whole ass and told me they cannot support me getting phallo, added misinformation about phallo being a bad surgery, and that was that. I guess I'm supposed to rot for the next 60 years then without hope (continued)

      sad, suicidal ideation, just venting

      I barely lived through a year and a half of this. you all are wonderful and saw my posts as I was at war with my brain trying so hard to make peace with this so I didn't have to get another surgery. nobody questions people who keep their dicks, nobody questions me or others who get vaginoplasty, nobody questions transmasc people who get phallo, but one stupid girl makes a mistake that has brought her so much heartache, embarrassment and pain, and I'm just supposed to tough it out?

      I know the complications are higher with me, I know it won't be a natal dicks. I'm rolling the dice on a chance at having any future at all. there's not a path without it, it's too good at dismantling my brain like this and I don't have the heart to keep putting myself together

      this is melodramatic, but someone I really care about being such an ass to me as I decay before their eyes really fucked with me

      • khizuo [ze/zir]
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        4 months ago

        meow-hug You deserve to feel comfortable in your body like everyone else. I hope the consult goes well.

      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        meow-hug I'm sorry, people are terrible sometimes. I'm wishing you the absolute best for your phallo.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        meow-hug My condolences that somebody close to you turned around and started acting like a bastard. Looking forward to hearing about your consult and beyond if you post about it, hoping the process goes smoothly for you

      • magi [null/void]M
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        4 months ago
        goblin support

        I think everyone deserves to be happy and have what they want.. doesn't matter what other people think, if it makes life better for you then go for it. I'm just a smol goblin from the void, but I support this. It won't be long ticking down, good luck! <3

      • naom3 [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        Fr it feels there’s a lot of anti-phallo sentiment out there compared to other trans surgeries and I’m not entirely sure why. That aside I’m really happy for you meow-hug

        • Yor [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          meow-hug thank you!

          I've thought about that too and it's definitely strange. The toxic things said against it are basically just misinformation. People will post early days recovery pics from stage 1 phallo and say "look how gross that is" without ever considering it's (typically) 2-3 stage surgery and vaginoplasty/ffs don't look great either in early recovery. It's really a shame when it's trans people (in my case and also generally) that buy into this transphobic framing of a gender affirming surgery. Especially when they are supportive of every other gender affirming surgery. I'll never understand it