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  • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
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    Leaving behind Discord bullshit biggggg good

    I feel like that's been code for just ignoring the legitimate grievances raised. Telling the trans community to just get over it isn't going to make them feel comfortable returning to the greater chapo community.

      • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
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        Admins know what the grievances are. They can reach out to the greater trans community.

        • Awoo [she/her]
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          Can you stop speaking like you represent all trans people please? You don't. There are a lot of us here that don't agree with you. This splinter group looks like it's what? 10 people at most?

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            100+ trans comrades. and there seemed to be a positive response to my thread so at least a proportion of people agree with me.

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              X to doubt. The spam I've seen in new isn't anywhere remotely close to that lol, nor is the participation in any discussion on the topic.

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                Ok. explain why the trans channel was active on the server. but it's a ghost town now.

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                  Because discord as a platform centres each channel around a core usergroup of 10-15 active users.

          • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
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            I already posted my concerns and the thread got locked. Why should I have any confidence the community will be heard out in good faith when no actions have been taken to indicate that they will be. The issues are well known at this point. It's not an issue of stating them. it's an issue of them yet being addressed.

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                if the trans mod of a trans community was wrong about their grievances - it's happened in the past - he should criticize it? it's ridiculous to say every grievance held by every trans person is correct, people are wrong a lot- i can remember many reddit dramas where multiple trans mods were expressing their grievances and they contradicted each other, leading to endless drama

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                Ok. Yelling at me that I'm not going by the right procedure or whatever isn't going to make the trans community automatically feel comfortable here again. And it's not my responsibility. And the Administration hiding is trans-exclusionary structure behind trans mods that are willing to ignore it doesn't really do anything positive either

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                If you really want to make a difference I'm sure the people from the shork server would be willing to talk it out with you. Like they were willing to talk with briggs about it until they decided to ignore any offers the shork server made to have that conversation. Otherwise you're just playing cover for the cis mods that don't care.

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      I think this is conflating a "truth and reconciliation committee" approach with a "blank slate" approach. With a blank slate approach, feedback and suggestions don't need to be couched in previous discord discord.

      If there are concerns, they can absolutely be addressed and fixes implemented without re-litigating disputes form another platform.

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          Blank Slate Approach: I'm worried that the current structure is vulnerable to insert general concern and suggest corrective action to mitigate the risk of this occurring. ✅

          Importing Discord Drama: I have been harmed by user X on different platform y and want to know what actions will be taken against them here. ❎

          • cycle [none/use name]
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            I don't see how classifying what's occurred recently as "drama" pertinent only to the Discord platform is productive to the conversation here. The factors that lead to this "drama" are inherent to both communities.

            A "blank slate" policy in this context meant leniency towards people that had been targeted in recent banwaves on Discord, not a full dismissal of any conflict that had occurred on the platform.

            • a_blanqui_slate [none/use name, any]
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              The factors that brought this “drama” are inherent to both communities.

              Strong disagree. I think the structure and format of Discords is a large driver of this sort of thing, because we never encountered anything like it moderating the very large subreddit.

              If this place is going to go anywhere, there needs to be an influx of people from the subreddit who (like me) never went to any of the discords so that they can water down the two feuding communities until they are no long meaningfully distinct.

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                  Agreed, discord is bad. On that note, whatever grievances people have against discord mods will fester here since the mod team is exactly the same. Just saying.

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                    mod team is exactly the same. Just saying.

                    No that's a valid point, and I think needs to change, but apparently that's already in the works.

                  • AlfredNobel [comrade/them,any]
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                    But this isn't the case there are at least three mods who are no longer mods due to actions on the discord.

              • cycle [none/use name]
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                The subreddit was moderated in a far different manner than the discord (irrespective of platform limitations), I don't think the comparison is apt.

                This isn't two feuding communities with "discord drama" spilling over into Lemmy. It's one community and legitimate grievances are reflected on both platforms. Simple as that.

                • a_blanqui_slate [none/use name, any]
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                  The subreddit was moderated in a far different manner than the discord

                  This is the new subreddit, it needs to be moderated like a subreddit.

                  It’s one community

                  No it's not. I don't know like 90% of the people here. I'm from the subreddit. Not the discord. So trying to pretend this is an extension of the discord and re-litigating grievances from there is a category error.

                  • cycle [none/use name]
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                    This is the new subreddit, it needs to be moderated like a subreddit.

                    I'm discussing the style and manner of moderation, not anything specific to the platform.

                    No it’s not. I don’t know like 90% of the people here. I’m from the subreddit. Not the discord. So trying to pretend this is an extension of the discord and re-litigating grievances from there is a category error.

                    Where do you think the discord users came from? We're literally all from the same community. There is no "extension of the discord". Some of us stayed in the discord during the transition, but it is the same community. The grievances that occurred there are relevant to the entire community and it's rather disrespectful to the people that were harmed there to say it has no place here and is just cheap discord drama.

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                If users have not behaved peacefully in this very same community, albeit on a different platform, then past conflicts are ABSOLUTELY your problem as a moderator. On one hand you're saying you want people to feel safe and on the other you're stating that even if a user has previously made members of your community feel unsafe, as long as they behave peacefully from this moment on you have no problem allowing them to participate in your community.

              • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
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                I’m new to modding, past conflicts are not my problem.

                That really sounds like dismissing the issues of the greater trans community, because it's inconvenient for you - which isn't a good way to get all the disaffected trans folks to feel comfortable coming back here.

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                  • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
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                    They’re not my problem.

                    Claiming issues effecting the trans community aren't your problem is kinda yikes.