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Uh yeah more or less! I also really internalised "you can come back to this", so getting interrupted wasn't like the death knell.
Don't do the socially regrettable thing :/
Uh I guess by literally leaving things as they are a lot of the time, like if I have something laid out on my desk I'll just leave it there and come back later. Also my wife is the only one who can pull me away from projects tbh.
do you struggle with the mental bit, though? like you're worried that all the thoughts and ideas you weren't able to write down will be gone if you leave it alone and come back later? or is it just being like "whatever" to that?
(oh my god i'm at work (home) switching my attention 4 ways at the moment, sorry if words aren't making sense, i really shouldn't be trying to have multiple conversations at the same time)
You are okay, no big
Uh I write stuff down if required, but often looking at the state of whatever I left behind will jog my brain about what I was doing. I do also take notes sometimes, or write down what I wanna do today.
i will try it all and report back! thank you
Fr, if I have a thought it must come out of me or else I will anxiously repeat it. If I have motivation to do a specific thing I must expend it for that state is transient and I might forget about it.
Yeah, I can’t stand other people forcing me to switch activities, but I’m fine leaving something behind of my own volition sometimes. For example I like finding articles among my mass of tabs that I’ve started because it seems less daunting.
It’s more than one thing I do from time to time :(
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To be fair other people are DESERVING OF DEATH
for forcing you to switch. Being able to leave stuff yourself is a good habit tho.
this tbh, my partner trying to get me to eat or go to bed at a reasonable time is me-phobic
Your partner cares about u tho :/ Like if ur partner isn't a fuckin normie they should be able to help with this imo.
yeah, i'm the one that makes the bedtimes, he is very nice about it, i just want to stay up all night and skip meals when i'm into something
i did have a 3:30 night last week playing vampire kissing simulator, that was a good time. was pretty out of it the next day, solved that with MORE WAYHAVEN. luckily i was on vacation.
Now that is really goddamn based
The clock is my nemesis but I cannot ignore it. ADHD assimilationist life hack: time anxiety/j I’m time blind but it’s not particularly crippling. Maybe more alarms would help, but I do wish for a pre-clock
Alarms do help me. I remember one time by brother was like "set an alarm to remind you" and I was like "its like 3 minutes. I won't forget that quickly". And then several hours later I remembered on my own! Win for me! /j (I probably was about to head to bed later than I should have and noticed my hamper was still on it so I wouldn't forget and I probably had to stay up like another hour waiting on laundry).
I just hyperfocused on my phone for a long time and then you reminded me my laundry’s been done but unfolded for days now, lol.
I wish I a had unfolded clothes in the dryer. Meant to do laundry afterwork last night, but forgot until I went to go to bed, thought I'd have time this morning, but woke up to my boss asking when I could make it into work...
ooooh free videos, i know what i'm watching tonight
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