• Wheaties [she/her]
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    3 hours ago

    that ain't gaslighting, that's just food witchery, some good ol' headology as Granny Weatherwax would say

    incomplete without this comment

  • Hexboare [they/them]
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    7 hours ago

    8 years living with a fridge

    never looks in the back

    Meanwhile the husband is gaslighting her into thinking she's his wife when she's really just become his mother with benefits

      • Hexboare [they/them]
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        4 hours ago

        Presumably your wife can actually make a sandwich, would look at the back of the fridge once in 8 years, and notice the difference between a spread that's 50 percent sugar and one that's 0 percent added sugar, though

  • darkmode [comrade/them]
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    edit-2
    8 hours ago

    I don’t think 30 year olds should act or eat like this. They deserve a lot better.

    Maybe the sandwich is only mentioned as part of the meal and there are some veggies involved? obama-socialism

    • KobaCumTribute [she/her]
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      3 hours ago

      I don’t think 30 year olds should act or eat like this.

      Look, Americans have very specific dietary needs, like hummingbirds. Without a regular meal of bread that's 50% corn syrup by mass and covered in thickened fruit juice with extra corn syrup and a little bit of fat and protein to further amplify the effects, they cannot sustain the exertion of pushing their lifted SUVs along Fred Flintstone style on their way to and from work. The average American burns over 20,000 calories on their typical 4 hour daily commute and the entire food economy is oriented around supporting this activity.

    • Pili [any, any]
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      edit-2
      8 hours ago

      Peanut butter on one slice, grape jelly on the other, brocoli in between.

      • TheDoctor [they/them]
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        6 hours ago

        If you’re packing a PB&J for later, you need peanut butter on both slices and jelly in the middle. Peanut butter insulates so it doesn’t get soggy and fall apart.

          • TheDoctor [they/them]
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            4 hours ago

            Depends on the brand of jelly or jam. I like strawberry preserves which tend to be thicker and will stay between the peanut butter just fine. There’s more watery jelly that gets stuck in clumps and that’s harder to spread and more likely to fall out.

    • ObamaSama [he/him]
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      8 hours ago

      That’s the most concerning part of this post, what adult eats PB&J for a real meal? I can understand it as a “there’s literally no other food in the house” thing occasionally but damn. Am*ricans really do eat the unhealthiest shit by choice

      • CleverOleg [he/him]
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        6 hours ago

        A PBJ sandwich is vegan and is probably healthier than what a large majority of Americans eat for lunch.

      • Lussy [any, hy/hym]
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        edit-2
        8 hours ago

        Pbandjs are fucking great, shut the fuck up.

        It’s not a real meal no but still

      • came_apart_at_Kmart [he/him, comrade/them]
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        8 hours ago

        a lot of people certainly eat junk especially for work lunch. hell I bet most do. and I've seen posts before in the same literal configuration: adult husband wants/expects adult wife to

        • make his lunch
        • it's a PB&J
        • made with the most sugar-loaded, ultra sweet, industrial brands

        this is what tired parents make little kids because they know the child will eat it and not complain.

        so I've seen it before, but I refuse to let it pass without comment.

        it's making me insane that he says "you make the best PB&J" with the industrial ingredients! like wtf. is she cutting them into dinosaur shapes? including a little note to remind him to share the enclosed famous amos cookies with friends?

        • ObamaSama [he/him]
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          5 hours ago

          Same energy as saying “I make the best ramen” when it’s instant noodles with an egg thrown in. My heart goes out to all the grown ass people with such limited culinary experiences they’re that easily impressed. Just use fresh ingredients to make things from scratch with your partner, it’s a blast! The heavily processed ready made slop is only needed when you dump all the responsibility on one person

          • 7bicycles [he/him]
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            4 hours ago

            with your partner

            Absolutely not, no, get out of the kitchen, I'm running this shit like I'm head chef, sous chef, line cook and dishwasher of a Ramsey restaurant all rolled into one.

          • JustSo [she/her, any]
            ·
            7 hours ago

            My sorta-partner likes it when I cut her sandwiches into triangles.

      • Hexboare [they/them]
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        7 hours ago

        American food really is grim, there's better quality fruit and veg at a 7/11 than your average US supermarket

        • peeonyou [he/him]
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          4 hours ago

          i don't think i've ever seen fruit or vegetables at a 7/11

          • Hexboare [they/them]
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            4 hours ago

            Yours don't have some sad looking bananas or apples at the counter?

  • Goblin [any]
    ·
    6 hours ago

    Are pbjs a tool of the bourgeoisie?

  • nohaybanda [he/him]
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    10 hours ago

    Like, it’s not cool that she’s doing this, but damn is it funny

    • ReadFanon [any, any]
      ·
      8 hours ago

      Right?

      It's funny as hell but imagine if they directed the energy they spend on this into improving communication in their relationship instead.

        • ReadFanon [any, any]
          ·
          8 hours ago

          "We have communication jam in our relationship."

          ""Communication breakdowns are so hard to deal with..."

          "What? No, I'm saying that we have communication jam."

  • Pili [any, any]
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    10 hours ago

    Get healthier sandwiches with that one weird trick! Wives hate him!