LMAO

    • kristina [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      i really dont get cheating. just like, go join an open relationship polycule?????

      • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        You can't just go join an open relationship polycule, especially retroactively, when you've entered a relationship with someone. Even then it is a very basic question of integrity, emapthy and decency not to cheat on them. If it turns out monogamy is not your thing, have the decency to break it off before you fuck someone up for life

        • kristina [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          yeah obviously. im just saying she supposedly cheated before meeting the OP on that one, but after that experience why didnt she look for open relationships??

          • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            IDK, some people just lack the self-reflection and maturity. IMO such a person would cheat in an open relationship too.

        • kristina [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          its just weird to me. if youre sexually promiscuous from the last time you cheated why dont you just own up to it?? like she clearly knows she wants multiple hogs

            • kristina [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              maybe its because im queer or something and im just willing to label things as they are? maybe she just doesnt know thats a thing you can do?

                • kristina [she/her]
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                  4 years ago

                  ive been invited to two trans polycules off the cuff before so maybe thats just the queer experience™️

            • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              I'll go out on a limb and say you shouldn't be in ANY relationship, beyond a professional client-provider with their therapist. Non-monogamous relationships take even more work than monogamous, and require all the negotiations, openness and so on. I think if someone fails at not cheating on one partner will completely fuck up things with multiple partners just as bad.