for the past few days, it's like my body's not messing around anymore, it just straight up wants me to procreate RIGHT NOW. admittedly it feels kinda good to be this horny, but it's also distracting and annoying, not just because it makes me feel like i have an ulterior motive all the time, but also because i don't have a horny personality, so all this horniness isn't very well integrated into the rest of me.

i'm not really asking for advice, just getting some feelings out

  • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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    4 years ago

    Sometimes I mistake loneliness for horniness. Like I want to [Redacted] but at the end I just wanna cuddle and be told I'm needed and valuable. Might be more alienation or I'm starved for affection idk. Corrected for clarification thanks @emizeko

    • no_cumsky [he/him,any]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      that happens to me too, but this time there's no mistaking it lol

      • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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        4 years ago

        F

        My heart goes out to you cumrade. Referring to your username btw not saying anything the volcelpolice can use against me.

    • emizeko [they/them]
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      4 years ago
      can't seem to stop with the nerd corrections today, I'm sorry

      that's mistaking loneliness for horniness

  • congressbaseballfan [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Have you considered trying to raise your IQ instead of raising your penis? Make your brain bigger. Studying craniology and haplogroup IQ test results and watching Destiny streams diverts blood flow to the brain.

  • hogposting [he/him,comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    Sometimes I get so horny I...

    spoiler

    ...keep my vital essences to myself and refocus my attention on agitating against capitalism.

    Not today, :volcel-vanguard:

      • VolcelPolice [any]
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        4 years ago

        God dammit we log back on to this shit? We can't leave you pervs alone for a minute

        o7 to hogposting though, well done

  • Rem [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Been there lol, I know what you mean about it kind of feeling good but also being annoying. Makes my cheeks feel permanently blushed.

  • fuckhaha [any,none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    On the rare occasion the depression clouds part this is my exact experience, down to the letter

    • no_cumsky [he/him,any]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      i think that's what's happening in my case too. i was depressed all through my teens and early 20s, which were peak "learning how to be horny" years, so now that the depression is lifting i'm horny as fuck but i don't know how to be horny and it's weirding me out.

  • ami [they/them,he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Realized I was asexual when the act of masturbation was no longer something I did for pleasure but just to get the feeling to go away.

    • TheBroodian [none/use name]
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      4 years ago

      I clearly don't understand asexuality, I beg your pardon for my ignorance to follow. Isn't that feeling the sensual indicator that you are indeed sexual?

      • ami [they/them,he/him]
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        4 years ago

        It's not really a sexual feeling when I get the urge to masturbate. It feels more like something I need to take care of to get it to go away. Think of like scratching an itch. It's not very often that the urge even arises and when it does its not because of any sort of sexual feelings. I don't really know how to convey it super clearly.

        Like, when you see someone you find attractive you might fantasize about them sexually, right? For me, that's non existent. The concept of sex doesn't do anything for me. I thought I was broken for the longest time and maybe I am idk I am still searching for a proper term or label to describe it but it honestly feels like asexuality to me.

  • hopelesscomrade [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    I got it really bad in my 20s. Kind of gone now that I'm 30. For the most part I just want to go to sleep