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  • emizeko [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    trying to sell you nudes makes me feel like she was aware of your romantic interest, wasn't interested herself, but wanted to get something out of you anyway

    • Infamousblt [any]
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      4 years ago

      She's being exploited by society, she's trying to exploit in return. It's some absolute shit but it's also what capitalism does...separating people from their community and making relationships transactional.

      OP it's not your fault. It's probably not her fault either. It's a shit situation all around, and I'm super sorry that happened.

      • ChapoBapo [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Please don't. This is a super weird and awkward situation someone put you in and it's not your fault that happened.

      • emizeko [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        pls don't, there's still connection out there to be found

          • 11000 [none/use name]
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            4 years ago

            Hey comrade I am autistic too and was like that. Then I met my current boyfriend who is also on the spectrum. We just clicked and it's been smooth sailing ever since. We are on the same wavelength about most things and there is no awkward misinterpretations going on. Have hope man you can find someone too.

              • 11000 [none/use name]
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                4 years ago

                Well you have just made one. Keep fighting man it's hard being like us in a world that is not set up for us but we can thrive given the right environment. I'm sorry you had to deal with rejection and a confusing new social situation on top of each other those two things always send me into a spiral of misery.

          • emizeko [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            being friends with someone you don't find attractive and building skills might help to work on those fears

          • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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            4 years ago

            'it never even began for me' is an Incel phrase. Have you visited those sites? No shame in it - we've all had our bad phases.

            • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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              4 years ago

              harangue about "incel logic" does the opposite of what you're trying to do. you don't help socially isolated people by encouraging them to view their despair about isolation as a moral failing.

              • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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                4 years ago

                I was just asking him if he'd visited them because if he has, I also have experience there. Means I can help better - speak in terms that someone is familiar with.

              • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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                4 years ago

                Yeah, me too lol. Chapo replaced braincels for me - just a niche ingroup that's terminally online.

                But it seems like you should be fine - mentalcel is volcel as they all used to say. Lets be real, if you're hot, you don't need to have mad chat up skills. Looksmax like mad.

                There's hope yet

      • ant9 [he/him,comrade/them]
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        4 years ago

        oh that's easy

        you get upset over this

        you realize she's probably a toxic person anyway

        you go find someone else

        after a long happy life you die in your sleep. :)