Hoping to hear everyone’s week went well this past week. Go out there and have a great week this week everyone! aubrey-happy

  • BountifulEggnog [they/them]
    cake
    ·
    1 month ago

    It's kinda funny how hard some labels are to apply on myself. Calling myself trans feels wrong, but saying I want to be transfem does not. I'll say all day how much I wish I was born a lesbian but calling myself a transwoman just makes me feel weird. But I can call myself an egg and that sits fine with me. but what do eggs hatch into

    • khizuo [ze/zir]
      ·
      edit-2
      1 month ago

      It took me months into literally being out as nonbinary to most of my school before I finally felt comfortable enough to call myself “trans” without feeling like an imposter who didn’t deserve it. Labels are funny.

      • SnowySkyes [she/her]
        hexagon
        M
        ·
        1 month ago

        I still feel like an imposter transwoman from time to time. It's an awful feeling. One would think I'd get over it at some point.

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
          ·
          1 month ago

          The type of dragon I was thinking of: https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/juuou-mujin-no-fafnir/images/d/d2/Tear_Lightning.png/

          spoiler/CW

          Tear says she's a dragon, for those who don't know. Wouldn't recommend the show - harem anime and the usual CWs with anime harems...


          • BountifulEggnog [they/them]
            cake
            ·
            1 month ago

            Ooh, an anime girl dragon not a fire breathing kind. I don't really watch anime, I know nothing about Tear.

            I'm still down though.

    • TBooneChickens [any]
      ·
      1 month ago

      I'm nonbinary transfem and I also don't relate to "woman". My identity really grew out from wanting people to not perceive me as a "man". I wanted to be a beautiful queer little femcreature that other queer femcreatures adore. As I experience femininity, particularly within cishet society, I find myself even more turned off by any expectations of gender, and emboldened in my own identity and selfexpression. It's a good thing 🫠

    • morte [she/her]
      ·
      1 month ago

      I still feel weird calling myself a woman. Im kinda non binary though. I feel very comfortable calling myself transfem