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  • Yor [she/her]
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    4 months ago

    dresses are cute, but I just don't find a situation to wear them much

        • Yor [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          haha well they don't always fit the vibe! I'm still trying to figure out how I express femininity in a way that works for me. not dresses all the time girly, not anime tops all the time tomboy, but some balance in between

          • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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            4 months ago

            I wear dresses just around the house sometimes, it's easier and comfier than sweatpants and a tank if it's too hot.

            • Yor [she/her]
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              4 months ago

              this is a good suggestion! I need to do this more often. it's cute and comfy

            • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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              4 months ago

              I typically just wear underwear + boxers over them. But I do sometimes wear a dress around instead and probably would be my default if my roommates complained about my current immodesty.

      • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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        4 months ago

        I have the same issue, a lot of my recent dress hunting has been trying to rectify this.

        Depending on the style of dress you can always wear it as a skirt with some sort of shirt on top. Or vice versa. Or you can just wear them.

        • Yor [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          yeah, I think at a certain point I'm too in my head about it and just need to shop for dresses more until I find some I like more than what I have now. I still have the remnants of going too hard in the stereotypical fem direction early transition that aren't quite it for me, but definitely close. defining your style is complicated

    • magi [null/void]M
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      4 months ago

      I had sone dresses that I never got to wear bar trying them on.

      I never had the opportunity to wear them and a couple I wasnt overly keen on. I now have to rebuild my wardrobe and I'm not sure where to start lol

      • Yor [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        ahh real lol. it's so overwhelming to rebuild a wardrobe! do you have a better idea of what you're looking for now?

        • magi [null/void]M
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          4 months ago

          Yeah I know some stuff about fashion and clear idea of what works for me, plus I keep up to date somewhat with styles.. just having to begin building it up again is a bit daunting lol

          I left a ton of my outfits and boots which will take time to build up and hitting the thrift hard..