Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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      • Yor [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        haha well they don't always fit the vibe! I'm still trying to figure out how I express femininity in a way that works for me. not dresses all the time girly, not anime tops all the time tomboy, but some balance in between

        • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          I wear dresses just around the house sometimes, it's easier and comfier than sweatpants and a tank if it's too hot.

          • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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            4 months ago

            I typically just wear underwear + boxers over them. But I do sometimes wear a dress around instead and probably would be my default if my roommates complained about my current immodesty.

          • Yor [she/her]
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            4 months ago

            this is a good suggestion! I need to do this more often. it's cute and comfy

    • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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      4 months ago

      I have the same issue, a lot of my recent dress hunting has been trying to rectify this.

      Depending on the style of dress you can always wear it as a skirt with some sort of shirt on top. Or vice versa. Or you can just wear them.

      • Yor [she/her]
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        4 months ago

        yeah, I think at a certain point I'm too in my head about it and just need to shop for dresses more until I find some I like more than what I have now. I still have the remnants of going too hard in the stereotypical fem direction early transition that aren't quite it for me, but definitely close. defining your style is complicated