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uh being a little negative about tall women (mostly directed at this tall woman)
Sorry about that. Just wish I was small and cute sometimes, yaknow. tbh I don't really see tall women (or at least this one) being cute I guess. Maybe other positive things but cute doesn't feel like one of 'em.
And uh, you say that but I'm not so sure. Definitely has to make it harder.
Yes shoe sizing my god. Already at the point where there aren't as many men's shoes that fit. I'm going to have so few options and probably order online and pray for the best.
You've never seen a cute tall woman? Wow, too bad. Cute to me =/= short
I know you are kinda ribbing me, which is fair I guess, but no I haven't seen any women close to my size I'd describe as cute
I've barely seen any women close to my size though my god. It is a shame, I'd probably like my body more if I did.REPRESENTATION MATTERS
Aww, too bad, I'm serious tall women can be cute! I swear. Cute, to me, is more like a mindset than a rigid set of physical features - plus if you're tall everything is still in proportion for your body/face, you're just... tall.
I mean in terms of physical features, a cherubic round face is cute, big eyes are cute, long lashes, but that's all possible on a tall person (even a tall man believe it or not). But also, I knew a (trans) girl who never learned to ride a bike but was willing to try and learn - talk about cute!!!
That's fair, I definitely could act cute.
Maybe. Once I start being able to buy girlstuff I'll have to ask what can make me look cute. I already have some things in mind but I'm sure there's more.
You're already well on your way to being cute then~
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"Small and cute" is such a common desire among transfemmes, lol. No need to apologise ✨ Uh why not though? Disregarding this is BULLSHIT, I think the tall bottom is an underrated category, Idk flipping the height script can be fun. But also tall (and sometimes broad shouldered waow!) women are beautiful, secretly. When I was younger I had a crush on this curly haired lady who was 6'2", so like no, I disagree and will do battle about it. Tall is grace, shit even supermodels are tall as fuck. They pass, people do not assume they are trans.
Yeah my condolences about shoe sizing, it is criminal that there aren't larger ones.
Smol dommes too don't forget those too
tbf everyone has sizing issues at some point even the cissies..
I would never
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idk, I feel like being "cute" is linked with being small (short and skinny-ish). Glad I'm not somehow the only transfem with that in mind
Sure. Beautiful and cute are different though. Maybe I will be beautiful, or pretty, or something. But cute? idk that's a tough one. I'm also not trying to battle with you.
exactly
hehe~
Also its not just about finding shoes that fit, I also just want to be smaller.
yeah but I enjoy talking this stuff over 'cause I'm weird
Uh it's not too bad, sorry. Making a girl a head taller than you blush is adorable, cute is almost more a demanour or vibe than anything else. Being tall does not preclude being cute, this is a weird thing.
I WILL BATTLE YOU But if you wanna get this fine-grained I'm gonna need you to get more specific about what "cute" means to you, for me. If it means being shy and coy, uh Idk, what is your perception of "cute"?
Yea I know you do, so many trans women wanna shrink and disappear it seems...
When are they gonna add them?? AAAAARHHHH!!!
WE NEED THEM
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That's like, acting cute. Looking cute is like, looking young and small. I want someone to be able to pick me up and pin me against a wall Be a smol bean girl who people look at and think "aw". The little spoon that just gets all wrapped up in someone's arms. And yea being shy and coy and all that is part of it too. Just being all small, and fem, and cute. Yaknow?
Hey right now I only want the shrink part.
You, my dear, are going to be one cute af subby girl.
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Like the kind of girl that makes me want to do her makeup while I'm straddling her and chiding her for blushing or whimpering. Or the kind where I would pick out her clothes to wear for a night out. Or the kind that brightens up and has a shy smile when she's told "wow, you've been such a good girl!" I'm not even gonna talk about the beautiful eyes and begging for stuff, we don't need to get into that at all, that's all accessory anyway.
You're going to be fine lol
Holy shit Literally please I would do anything for someone to do this to me. God I need to find somebody so bad.
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Trying to decide which cool feminist author from the 90s to recommend you bell hooks? Judith Butler? 'Cause uh...
I find it interesting that much of this relies on the perception of others, but my initial read was correct - "femme subby bottom core" lmao. You can still get picked up and pinned against a wall, in fact it's fun with someone taller frankly. It's cool and interesting when your sub is taller than you, honestly. And being tall does not preclude little spoon enjoyment, sheesh. My wife is shorter than me by a fair bit; if I wanna lay on her chest, I just do, and I tangle my longass legs around hers. She is a great bigspoon because she's soft but also built af
The "shrink and disappear" is an Orange Book reference sorry
I can also pick you up and carry you
or crush my ribcage
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I don't know exactly what you are implying here but I do feel like I should be able to look however I want.
I genuinely do not believe I could be pinned against a wall, unless I also find someone who's big like me. And tbh I like women shorter then me (I mean you probably could have worked that out on your own).
But I'll still feel all big idk maybe I'm too worried about how I'll feel in the future. I just want to be a lil smaller
Ah, didn't get that, sorry. Is relatable though.
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When you find someone who treats you right a lot of these worries will go out the window
It better be when, it feels like an "if" right now.
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Implicator I happen to agree which is why I didn't like, go hard, but this whole "you can only be cute if you are small and youthful looking and demure and shy", I think it is a thing, some people have written about it is all. I think it's worth examining even a little, Idk.
Why not?? Only takes meeting someone a head shorter but twice as strong as you. On estrogen your strength will wane, your limbs may slim. My wife is 5'1", I am 5'7" and she doesn't have any issues. Also liking women shorter than you is fun, I love a partner who is shorter than me
I don't think you will, if your partner is stronger than you for wall-pinning purposes she may also end up more substantial than you, and so despite your height you can still be the slender waifish little spoon to the muscle gf. You can become "smaller", depending on how you define it, on hormones. Height is just one aspect
Yeah sorry for shitposting
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Ooh that's a good word to put on my list of things I want to be. idk, maybe. I don't want people to make me feel like a creep for what I want to look like/act like.
When you say this, it actually sounds like you are being ironic. There are incredibly few women twice as strong as I am. (light hearted) did you like, forget that I'm big and pre hrt? But I suppose we will see.
Yes, I do need to become slender. Much happier when I was slender.
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You absolutely could, this is more about power dynamics than anything else. As Ash mentioned someone shorter but stronger totally could as well.
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I just realized I did a terrible, terrible job explaining what I meant here. Wow I am a stupid girl. I was meaning like up with my feet off the ground. But because of tall (and kinda heavy) that would be harder. Someone could not lift me off the ground up to eye level.
But yes that probably would actually work and be fine. Once again eggnog fails to communicate properly 😔
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Yeah cuteness is a mindset as much as it is a particular aesthetic. I could (and do!) pull off being super pretty, refined, and elegant, but I can also pull off cute. And sometimes I do both at once if I'm in the right mindspace at the time. And I found my ex adorable partly due to how unrefined she looked sometimes. Even if it wasn't traditionally cute it was super cute.
You just gotta EMBODY cute
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Traditional conceptions of cuteness might be, but just like how conventional beauty standards aren't the only way to be beautiful conventional cuteness is not the only way to be cute. I may be taller than most cis women but I'm utterly adorable because I've got the right mindset for it and an eye for cute styles.
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omg but tall bottoms??? Or even better, tall tops - BUT they're super subby... the secret category to be protected at all costs
based actually
Yeah fr, hard to disagree with that tbh
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Oh my switch semi-tall ass is in danger here...