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That's like, acting cute. Looking cute is like, looking young and small. I want someone to be able to pick me up and pin me against a wall Be a smol bean girl who people look at and think "aw". The little spoon that just gets all wrapped up in someone's arms. And yea being shy and coy and all that is part of it too. Just being all small, and fem, and cute. Yaknow?
Hey right now I only want the shrink part.
You, my dear, are going to be one cute af subby girl.
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Like the kind of girl that makes me want to do her makeup while I'm straddling her and chiding her for blushing or whimpering. Or the kind where I would pick out her clothes to wear for a night out. Or the kind that brightens up and has a shy smile when she's told "wow, you've been such a good girl!" I'm not even gonna talk about the beautiful eyes and begging for stuff, we don't need to get into that at all, that's all accessory anyway.
You're going to be fine lol
Holy shit Literally please I would do anything for someone to do this to me. God I need to find somebody so bad.
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Trying to decide which cool feminist author from the 90s to recommend you bell hooks? Judith Butler? 'Cause uh...
I find it interesting that much of this relies on the perception of others, but my initial read was correct - "femme subby bottom core" lmao. You can still get picked up and pinned against a wall, in fact it's fun with someone taller frankly. It's cool and interesting when your sub is taller than you, honestly. And being tall does not preclude little spoon enjoyment, sheesh. My wife is shorter than me by a fair bit; if I wanna lay on her chest, I just do, and I tangle my longass legs around hers. She is a great bigspoon because she's soft but also built af
The "shrink and disappear" is an Orange Book reference sorry
I can also pick you up and carry you
or crush my ribcage
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I don't know exactly what you are implying here but I do feel like I should be able to look however I want.
I genuinely do not believe I could be pinned against a wall, unless I also find someone who's big like me. And tbh I like women shorter then me (I mean you probably could have worked that out on your own).
But I'll still feel all big idk maybe I'm too worried about how I'll feel in the future. I just want to be a lil smaller
Ah, didn't get that, sorry. Is relatable though.
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Implicator I happen to agree which is why I didn't like, go hard, but this whole "you can only be cute if you are small and youthful looking and demure and shy", I think it is a thing, some people have written about it is all. I think it's worth examining even a little, Idk.
Why not?? Only takes meeting someone a head shorter but twice as strong as you. On estrogen your strength will wane, your limbs may slim. My wife is 5'1", I am 5'7" and she doesn't have any issues. Also liking women shorter than you is fun, I love a partner who is shorter than me
I don't think you will, if your partner is stronger than you for wall-pinning purposes she may also end up more substantial than you, and so despite your height you can still be the slender waifish little spoon to the muscle gf. You can become "smaller", depending on how you define it, on hormones. Height is just one aspect
Yeah sorry for shitposting
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Ooh that's a good word to put on my list of things I want to be. idk, maybe. I don't want people to make me feel like a creep for what I want to look like/act like.
When you say this, it actually sounds like you are being ironic. There are incredibly few women twice as strong as I am. (light hearted) did you like, forget that I'm big and pre hrt? But I suppose we will see.
Yes, I do need to become slender. Much happier when I was slender.
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Demure? Fair play...
This is not ironic, also again HRT can noodle-ify you. Idk if you've worked out or whatever? Do you really think you're that much stronger than the average woman? Silly egg Since you intend to go on hormones that'll only get easier too.
Well I look forward to being turned into a noodle
even if I have some concerns.And idk, kinda. Not that I'm twice as strong as any woman or anything. But with how big a difference T makes + just being kinda big yea I think I'm stronger then most women? When I read women talking about it they all seem like they feel a lot weaker then most men? Isn't that a big reason women are so worried about safety things, being weaker? I know that's one of my big concerns surrounding safety.
Yea I'm sure it will.
You do have options when it comes to that, you can be anywhere from smol noodle to bulked gf or anything else!
It is true that anyone with testosterone in their system gets a buff to being buff. But also, there are strong women too, so like Idk. Actually many partners I've had have been unusually strong sapphics huh... Safety is a whole seperate issue though Idk. Pepper spray.
Well hopefully I meet some strong Sapphics :hyperflush:
Yea, I know. Hard to stay on topic though. Thanks for talking.
It’s funny, I do not really encounter women who will talk about being “weaker” than men. It’s really not something that has come up in my life even back when I thought I was a woman. In fact I think I tend to encounter many women who are into fitness and strength training. I do not think I’ve met a woman who said that they feel “weaker” than men. I think the safety concerns that women have come more from their understanding of misogyny in society than any perception they may have of physical weakness.
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When you find someone who treats you right a lot of these worries will go out the window
It better be when, it feels like an "if" right now.
I know it does but things will get better
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You absolutely could, this is more about power dynamics than anything else. As Ash mentioned someone shorter but stronger totally could as well.
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I just realized I did a terrible, terrible job explaining what I meant here. Wow I am a stupid girl. I was meaning like up with my feet off the ground. But because of tall (and kinda heavy) that would be harder. Someone could not lift me off the ground up to eye level.
But yes that probably would actually work and be fine. Once again eggnog fails to communicate properly 😔
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Lack of imagination on your part, sure you might not be able to be picked up, but consider the alternative, someone could pull you down to their eye level, or hold you down in an embrace to keep you closer. There are plenty of ways to fluster your subs beyond the common ideas.
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Oh my god you are so right. Jesus.
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Perks of having a little experience~ Being a switch helps the imagination too.
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switch gang we out here. it does make it hard to conceive of how someone could be exclusively top/bottom, though that's another topic entirely