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Let's have another good week everyone lets-fucking-go trans-ferret

  • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
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    4 months ago
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    i know right! lea-blush

    yeah i can understand the hesitance around knives, but if you'd like to test the waters, i did see a cute wooden knife for knife play on etsy. you could also use the dull edge or just a straight up a dull blade. that way you can still get the experience without the risk of a fuck-up. but obviously you know your limits meow-hug

    • lilypad [she/her, null/void]
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      4 months ago
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      Aww ty for the suggestions! Tbh rn i dont have anyone i trust with that degree of play in my life, so its kinda relegated to the back burner regardless.

      I also just discovered this emoji hammer-and-vibe and i love it, lowkey want to take a stylized tattoo of it now izutsumi-idea

      • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
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        4 months ago
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        welcome cat-trans

        we have the best emojis folks, i think that one was a meme someone posted on the subreddit years ago, but don't quote me on that

        • lilypad [she/her, null/void]
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          4 months ago

          Tbh the emoji are what made me move from another lemmy instance over here (that and seeing everyone say hexbear was super transphobic and hateful while every hexbear i interacted with was actually backing their claims up with links and giant effortpost comments.

          kink

          For now Im happy just doing bondage and impact play, with some degredation and service. Its something thats important to me but ive never found a partner who A) i trust and B) can match me where im at. My current kind-of-partner-ish-person gets tired after an hour of whipping/flogging, but half the time when she calls the scene i just want more and its like the more i get the more i want. I had a partner who liked electroplay but im not super comfy with it (mostly cause of lack of education, plus ive been jolted enough times that its not a thrill or otherwise sexual anymore shrug-outta-hecks (idk, at this point it just takes me back to doing electrical stuff and like, i dont want to think about soldering or breadboarding while playing, yk?)).

          • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
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            4 months ago

            hell yeah, sis! lemmitors are showing their reddit roots with all the projection they do.

            kink

            electroplay, like shock collars and stuff? hm. also yeah there are a few things as sexy as soldering reminds me of primary school lea-why

            good luck trying to find those limits, uhh... eventually. also yeah trust is a massive issue for me too. not even about being trans and shit, but like someone or a couple of someones whom i could trust with hurting me seems like a far fetched dream at times

            • lilypad [she/her, null/void]
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              4 months ago
              kink

              Yeah, shock collars, electrowands, electrified buttplugs, etc.

              Yeah nothing is as offputting as being in the middle of a scene and then suddenly thoughts of op amps go through your mind 🙃

              Most of my limit issues revolve around trust. I hope you can find someone(s) who you trust to hurt you <3