trans-hammer-sickle Happy Early May Day!

  • EstraDoll [she/her]
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    5 months ago

    Wasn't super keen on the idea of bottom surgery at all but like, damn, those things are just like the real thing, huh? Guess there's not a huge rush to sign up for SRS but like... idk, maybe I will get it one day?

    • AutomatedPossum [she/her]
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      5 months ago
      NSFW

      The taste and smell is soooo good. Many girls struggle a bit with lubrication unless they go for PPT (which is only available in a few specialized clinics), but needing some lube affects cis women as well and doesn't seem like a big deal to me. I mean, it's also entirely valid to not get surgery, to get an orchi, to get zero depth, to go Salmacian, there's good reasons for all of these transition options, all transfem genitals are wonderful and deserve love (i'm serious, girldick is amazing) and you should just see what you need to feel comfortable in your own body. But when i talk to my post vaginoplasty friends, it's just this constant, overwhelming source of gender euphoria for them to finally have a pussy.

      • EstraDoll [she/her]
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        5 months ago

        that's one of the things that gets me now, I have this much choice??? do trans mascs even get this much choice about what's between their legs? how many possible bottom surgeries could I get and do I even want any of them??? I'm leaning towards "nah I'm good" but holy shit there's so many options

        • AutomatedPossum [she/her]
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          5 months ago

          do trans mascs even get this much choice about what's between their legs?

          Actually they get even more, and i'm not even getting into different operating techniques in either case.

          No need to sweat this. tho. Just focus on the stuff that's directly ahead of you, what to do about the rest tends to sort itself out over time.

        • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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          5 months ago

          I think it's kinda cool that trans mascs can like pick when they're erect lol also they can pick length depending on where they get tissue from (leg transplant tissue can go up to 8 inches). Very cool for them.

          • EstraDoll [she/her]
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            5 months ago

            holy shit, trans mascs can pick their length from using leg muscle??? i had no idea how far you could go with SRS, this shit is wild and I love it

    • SnowySkyes
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      5 months ago

      Depending on the surgeon, it can take forever to even get in. My surgeon, for example, schedules new consultations about six months out. So if it is something that’s super important for you like it was for me, moving a little faster is probably for the best.

      Getting into NSFW territory

      Everything past here is about results of colon vaginoplasty. It is the surgery that I got as well as the surgery that my second wife got.

      I will say that, for me at least, this has been the single greatest thing that I have or will ever do for myself in my entire life. Everything looks perfect. It functions perfectly. It’s still healing, but what I do feel feels natural. The sheer positive impact it has had on my life simply cannot be measured. My mental state has gone from barely hanging on to simply flourishing. For me, it was like that first dose of HRT, except about 1000x more effective on my psyche. That it’s not hyperbole either. It has actively suppressed my anxiety and panic disorder, which I have been dealing with for almost a decade now. Hells, just about every time I see it or touch it I damn near about burst into tears of sheer joy. The happiness I’ve felt this past month has been immeasurable to say the least and I doubt it’s going to change anytime soon.

      My second wife’s results are much more tangible as she’s almost a year post-op instead of 1 month. Hers looks fucking amazing. Everything from scent to looks to function to taste is cis. She seriously has top notch results and I simply can’t believe that it is so amazing.

      It is awesome to me that surgeons can supply these results. When I started my journey years ago, I didn’t expect that I could have something that looked and functioned this superbly well. It felt like a pipe dream. Once I saw what they did for my second wife, I knew that it was a reality and that I made the right decision for myself to move quickly on it.

      One last thing. SHOP FOR SURGEONS! Results matter and this is something that is forever. I didn’t do that with my tummy tuck all those years ago and I ended up with a completely numb lower abdomen because of it. The results are also very subpar as they didn’t remove the loose skin around my love handles for some fucking reason even though it was part of the scope for the damn surgery. That’s why I can’t stress that point enough.

      • EstraDoll [she/her]
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        5 months ago

        My surgeon, for example, schedules new consultations about six months out. So if it is something that’s super important for you like it was for me, moving a little faster is probably for the best.

        Eh, I can wait. I'm still leaning towards the idea of "I'll just keep what I have" but like, you telling me that I could have one that looks and feels just like the real thing one day? wow! Maybe 2 years from now? Maybe 20? Maybe never? Who knows? I'm happy to just have the option!