• AntiOutsideAktion [he/him]
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      3 hours ago

      When you're anonymous, all of those 'extra' identities are stripped from you and you become the default white cis male American meow-hug

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    I read more from that same poster.

    Whoa there those are big words for an UFO sighting are you a conspiracy theorist or something? Lmao

    So you basically threw away everything that I said and fixated on the only word you don't understand to attack with the only implanted knowledge you have that sits next to it in your brain folder lol

    Your argument is for the people of the rainbow, my argument is for everyone all the same as I said before if you don't mind sharing all about yourself to everyone else then why would you mind the greedy corporations helping you out when selling your data it's all the same they be sharing the same data as you want to force share with everyone but just not sharing any profit with you because you too want your data to be shared anyway, on the other hand there are people who simply don't care wether you're a he, she or even it as long as you have your personal thoughts and interests that's all that matters and everyone is all the same online for us gender isn't all that makes up a person and therefore it isn't a big deal to innocently perfectly quote an old meme to someone from the different gender and get insulted and banned then because you didn't change the quote to fit their gender.

    this is Lemmy after all not Reddit, why come here if you don't want privacy I started to have this thought that you're just on all social platforms to spread knowledge about your identity, pronouns and the gay people existence and only that, no matter where you are it's all the same for you "I only want everyone know that I'm not a he/him I'm a she/her I absolutely want nothing more from this place other than that " to be honest I wouldn't judge any instance owner to start helping you further spread knowledge about the rainbow people and make personal profit out of it by selling all of your data since you not just don't mind but also want everyone to acknowledge it, again this is not Reddit this is Lemmy, the first people who built this concept didn't think of making it just a social platform like all they made it a safe place away from personal greed where everyone is free to keep their privacy to their own with all the rights to be anonymous, you guys just came here and started forcing rules around forgetting the first concept build of this place, some instances 'added' the ability to have pronouns as a 'feature' not all instances have it or are able to see it so just don't forget this fact. And I have no problem acknowledging your existence I just have a problem with you forcing your "obvious pronouns so don't misgender me" rules forgetting the main reason that had this place to exist in the first place.

    What a gigantic Reddit-brained piece of shit.

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    I guess this is what getting old feels like, it’s not like Iwant to be a boomer about this.

    he-admit-it

  • frauddogg [they/them, null/void]
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    6 hours ago

    This whole shit reads like simulation theory but for liberals scratched by trans comrades. They are a breath and a half from 'we're all NPCs here so your gender shouldn't and doesn't matter to me'.

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      5 hours ago

      Not far off from "dae humans just meat computers" vulgar reductionism, either.

        • UlyssesT [he/him]
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          4 hours ago

          Many such cases.

          There's a special level of alienation required to declare all lived experience and all one has ever known must be fictional and that the only living thinking beings that person has ever known are just "meat."

  • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    geordi-no Gender is a myth because it's made up

    geordi-yes gender is a myth because seriously have you read the Enuma Elish the whole fucking thing is about gender! Well, gender and the tragedy of mortality, I guess.

  • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
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    6 hours ago

    Tbh honest when online gender is just a myth everyone is just a typing bot no one is actually whatever gender they think they are and stupidly everyone who judged you on those comments is either didn't know the whole point of the Fediverse or has forgotten, because one of the main reasons that founds the whole existence of this place is anonymity from companies earning money selling our data, the fediverse is an escape from the company greed therefore there's no he or she we're all equals here and it's valid to say " the man, the legend.. as it is to say way to go sis.. " as we're all just free anonymous accounts as should be and we need to delete the gender concept maybe starting with using gender neutral terms online until everyone's comfortable with the idea because to be banned or have your account deleted for misgendering another user is just crazy and defeats the whole fediverse concept.

    This person isn't just transphobic, they are also apparently full stop-phobic as well, based on this massive run-on sentence.

  • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    I saw that thread and it was incredibly stupid. "Of course I need to call you a man, the reddit meme that I dare not tweak at all says so! I can't just say woman or say something original!"

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    tbh

    Once again "to be honest" is being used as a sophistic attempt to transmute an opinion (or a lie) into "honesty," which is to say, to some incontrovertible fact. I hate that Reddit-brained shit and I've hated it for a long time.

    tbh the Drej Queen of the Drej Tank is real and hates this shit too.

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  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    6 hours ago

    Just stop using gender specific pronouns at all. Makes things much simpler

    Just stop posting concern trolling shit and fuck off forever, concern trolls. Makes things much simpler.

    • Z_Poster365 [none/use name]
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      5 hours ago

      This user needs to go to 4chan if they want this culture, they don’t even have usernames there - even more anonymity!

      See what kind of great posting culture that site promotes!

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        5 hours ago

        It's so neutral and simpler to have a bunch of nazis driving everyone else out! so-true

  • Infamousblt [any]
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    7 hours ago

    Says everyone should default to gender neutral language online and uses that as a reason why it's okay to not use gender neutral language online.

    That's.... certainly a take

  • SacredExcrement [any, comrade/them]
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    7 hours ago

    The lengths people will go to in order to defend being a dickhead to marginalized groups rather than just simply not being a dickhead is astonishing sometimes

    • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]
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      edit-2
      6 hours ago

      It's like a reverse marshmallow test, you can accept your mistake and apologize immediately, which feels bad for a second, or you can dig in your heels in an attempt to avoid that second and feel bad indefinitely instead.

    • nothx [he/him]
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      edit-2
      7 hours ago

      It’s absurd! A simple apology does a lot more than a chud-esque explanation and revision of events. If you have already offended people, explaining why you offended them is not going to fix it. Just apologize and sit the fuck down!

  • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
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    8 hours ago

    I hereby offer anime avatars an apology. AI avatars produce a whole new level of cringe I didn't know was even possible.