Fuck ada tbh, has done fuck all to protect trans people and has done a fuckton to protect the kind of people that say this shit. There's even more shit in the thread here: https://lemmy.ml/post/22194896

its a fucking shitshow dear god i dont know how marcie survives the sea of morons

its very strange to see trans servers and sites that are so pathetic at actually defending trans people and educating the cis people around them. Trans spaces are for trans people, and while cis people are allowed, any weird shit from them should get them an immediate ban. Several of the shit talkers are just cis randos giving their hateful opinion.

thank god for people like Kristina and TC_69 to have a competent defense of trans people.

  • FunkyStuff [he/him]
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    4 hours ago

    Serious question: is it not callous as hell for myself, as a cishet dude, to be telling trans people in the US that the negative outcome here was coming either way? What's a better line to take?

    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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      2 hours ago

      myself, as a cishet dude, to be telling trans people in the US that the negative outcome here was coming either way?

      Are you being asked? Because I generally would not assume that trans people would either ask you, as a cishet, or hold unsolicited advice from you on this topic in high regard. I'd suggest just focusing on other issues.

      • FunkyStuff [he/him]
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        1 hour ago

        I'm not being asked, but I have some friends and I don't really know what's a good way to navigate this situation since I really don't want to come across like I'm gloating.

        • Thallo [love/loves]
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          53 minutes ago

          All off the most aggressive anti-trans shit happened under Biden's administration.

          But yeah, there's pretty much no way you can say that without being called an asshole.