At least online, anonymity plays a part, but the discussions seem to have a lot of masculine energy to them. Is it maybe also like music, chess, or comedy where socialization plays a role in the male dominance?

I remember 60% of Bernie's constituency was female, but it doesn't seem to translate online. How can we work to attract more women to the movement?

  • ToastGhost [he/him]
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    cuz reddit is a brofest, and this place is mostly reddit people from the old sub.

  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    There are a lot of female leftists outside of the internet, the internet just sucks.

    It's a combination of things. Socialization, misogyny making women feel unwelcome on the internet etc. A lot of women pretend to be male online too, and you probably don't notice.

    • TruffleBitch [she/her]
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      This. I chose gender neutral usernames and hardly ever corrected people on most subreddits because I didn't feel safe enough and didn't want to risk potential harassment. I also cycled regularly through usernames.

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        I'm not a cis dude, femboi or trans woman. lol. :stalin-garrison: :stalin-joking: :stalin-smokin: :stalin-heart:

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    A lot of irl leftist stuff tends to be majority women, actually. This place, on the other hand, is a niche internet space that grew out of an old subreddit. It’s not representative of leftism as a whole.

    The thing about the discussions here having “masculine energy” makes me wonder if this post is a bit.

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      no, they're right. masculinity comes off a lot of the stuff here in waves.

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        I agree, but the overall vibe of the post makes me wonder whether the OP thinks the “masculine energy” is a good thing

        A few aspects of the phrasing in the post give me pause. Hard to tell for sure though.

        • the_river_cass [she/her]
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          oh, maybe. haha, I'm wired to read "masculine energy" and recoil so I'm not the best judge of intent here

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        Shame them loud and proud if you want lmao, coming to Chapo to be a sex pest has got to be the dumbest decision, and they have no place here.

      • Pezevenk [he/him]
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        It's weird, like, what do people expect, that they're gonna hook up with some rando they met online and don't know shit about?

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        You should publicly shame them, that would discourage any future harassment

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          did on one, the rest was just pics of not nice things and i told the admins to ban them

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    Why gotta use female? Kind of weird tbh honest. We got lots of women here and non binary peeps so I don't think to masculine but maybe they could give their thoughts just maybe change up the female part if you can. Will help facilitate good faith discussions.

        • the_river_cass [she/her]
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          if you try and keep count in your head, 2 of every 3 being cis male is approximately accurate. I had to check too cause I interact more often with the women/enbies here.

          • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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            Starting to remember those surveys and was surprised how little trans men we have here. Also I wonder just how many of those cis guys here have explored themselves? Like once again I remember a few users that start with one pronoun before changing as they grew here, don't wanna single anyone out but proud of them.

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              this is one of those places where socialization actually matters. AMAB people are socialized as boys so they made space for themselves in populations of mostly cis dudes, like reddit (though reddit as a whole is closer to even when you take into account the beauty & fashion subs). so we tend to have more trans women and AMAB enbies here than trans men or AFAB enbies. if this space becomes more welcoming to women, the population of trans men will also grow over time as some of them discover they're men.

              • Wmill [they/them, fae/faer]
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                Ok I think I'm getting it. Just a little embarrassed to ask but what does AMAB and AFAB stand for saw it the other day and from what you wrote I think I know what they mean but want to make sure. Also back to your point if we made this space more inclusive for women then more will be here and more will find themselves. Struggling with words right now so forgive me if a bit dense trying my best.

        • the_river_cass [she/her]
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          I think their point was that the OP used it as an adjective, not a noun. all your examples involve using the term as a noun rather than as an adjective in a noun phrase. "female leftists" rather than "females". the issue for me is that it's reductive on sex and the question should really be about non-cis-dudes.

                • jack [he/him, comrade/them]
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                  Removed my bad comment

                  Edit: I'm going to stop here because it's probably not my place as a man to argue with a woman about what's feminist. I'm going to take some time to reflect about if I'm doing a good job in regards to gender in the way I communicate online. I think I need to do better. Sorry for being obstinate and defensive.

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            the question should really be about non-cis-dudes.

            But there are lots of trans women and NBs here compared to most not explicitly LGBTQ spaces. On the other hand there are very very few cis women and trans men, if I remember correctly combined they were less than the trans women on the sub. It has to do with what you said, AMAB people were socialised as dudes so they participate more in male oriented spaces as opposed to AFAB.

            I know a lot of the humour here is off putting to many women and especially cis women. It's just the result of being very underrepresented. I've posted about it again, what with the whole "white women lmao" stuff and the male genitalia stuff.

            • the_river_cass [she/her]
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              the socialization comment was about why people self-select different platforms. this place is also off-putting to trans women, we just have more practice dealing with it. making the space more welcoming to women will help both cis and trans women feel more comfortable. I can't really speak for trans men here.

  • Sen_Jen [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    There just aren't as many women on this site as men. I know WAY more women leftists than men irl, like 80-20.

  • cresspacito [he/him]
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    There seems to be a lot on Twitter, for what it's worth, most of my fav leftist posters on Twitter are female

      • the_river_cass [she/her]
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        it's the assumption of default masculinity, in part at least. I think if pronoun tags become more widely adopted, this will change. like look at the beauty parts of reddit - the accounts are as anonymous as the rest of reddit but people are assumed to be women, talking about stuff that interests women, and they post there by the millions.

            • the_river_cass [she/her]
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              ugh, I was typing a reply to you and @TG_TrashGirl when I got some weird harassment and she'd deleted her account by the time I got back to finish writing... uuurggggh, we've gotta stop this bleeding or we're all just going to get fed up and leave...

                • the_river_cass [she/her]
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                  this week... my inbox has been obnoxious for almost a full week now. I can't even link half the horrible shit cause it's targeted and creepy af or so bigoted it'll trigger a bunch of unsuspecting people. I know it's mostly the crowd we shooed back to stupidpol and their friends but there's enough bullshit here to go around without them. so yeah, very, very frustrated, even though I'm extremely glad the bans happened.

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        Maybe op is being downvoted because it's not the left in general, it's pretty much this sub.

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            Even in the body it says "the movement" which seems to imply this place is "the movement"? Idk it's kind of a weird post. There are very few women HERE, it's a problem of this sub, not the movement or the left in general.

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                It's not really a semantics issue. And I really think people gotta stop making a big fuss about their interpretations of downvotes.

                • the_river_cass [she/her]
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                  hey, people get really worked up about this stuff because it's triggering and because it's something we have to fight constantly. please, please, please don't tell people what to make a fuss about... the comment has a long, misogynist history in the anglo world.

    • the_river_cass [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      the megathread and the interest specific comms are more in this vein, but yeah you're right.

  • Qelp [they/them,she/her]
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    I mean this site has quite a few women in it compared to other sites. Like every moderately popular thread has at least one [she/her] in it. Def not the majority , probably like a 70-30 or 60-40 split if you’re only counting active users