Just randomly feeling like you aren't trans is so weird. Like I was feeling so euphoric earlier, I've been chatting with a couple of you all day about trans stuff, and now I just... don't feel it. This happens semi often too.
This happens to me as well, and I have no idea how to properly explain, nor do I know why it happens. Males me doubt myself and feel horrible every time though, as if my self-confidence can afford to get any lower
Feelings are transient. Personally I fluctuate between debating medical transitioning with two equal internal positions and not thinking about it and thus feeling fine. I never feel masc, but I can debate how fem I want to be.
I think it makes sense, certain things will cause you to feel it more but it can't necessarily be at that amplitude 24/7 you know? Brain makes room for other things.
Honestly, not sure if I ever feel particularly trans. But I certainly don't feel cis. Easier to feel confident in that for me. Like, all I have to wait is til my mom messages me and inevitably includes "son" in her message to remember how much it annoys me, for example. I have not clearly communicated I don't like that, so it's my fault imo, but it still just makes me want to ignore her...
Just randomly feeling like you aren't trans is so weird. Like I was feeling so euphoric earlier, I've been chatting with a couple of you all day about trans stuff, and now I just... don't feel it. This happens semi often too.
Happens to me all the time. Just ride the wave 🌊
This happens to me as well, and I have no idea how to properly explain, nor do I know why it happens. Males me doubt myself and feel horrible every time though, as if my self-confidence can afford to get any lower![sadness sadness](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3de7432c-5d0b-441d-9167-0c61cc3838ab.png)
I can't explain it either, but
exact same thing here.
Feelings are transient. Personally I fluctuate between debating medical transitioning with two equal internal positions and not thinking about it and thus feeling fine. I never feel masc, but I can debate how fem I want to be.
I get these feelings, but it’s more because I’ve spent so long in boymoder limbo
I think it makes sense, certain things will cause you to feel it more but it can't necessarily be at that amplitude 24/7 you know? Brain makes room for other things.
Funny you should say that
THE WAVES
It has all come back! Even better!
Just according to keikaku![dont-laugh dont-laugh](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/5de5d16d-2051-46fd-801b-0adb6697ec48.png)
I was chalking that up to fluidity for a while but I don’t know if that’s actually what gender-fluid folks experience
Honestly, not sure if I ever feel particularly trans. But I certainly don't feel cis. Easier to feel confident in that for me. Like, all I have to wait is til my mom messages me and inevitably includes "son" in her message to remember how much it annoys me, for example. I have not clearly communicated I don't like that, so it's my fault imo, but it still just makes me want to ignore her...
I definitely feel similar. For me it varies between "not a guy" and "girl" for the most part.