Don't get horny, just make things out of wood. If you still get horny woodcraft until your hands bleed and you're hallucinating tigers in your peripheral vision from the sleep deprivation. Make a birdhouse or a table and look at those things to de-horny yourself.
At which point you go to your birdhouse, look at it, and think bird thoughts. When you think horny thoughts, scream into a pillow and make more wooden things.
just don't get splinters in your ass. finish all your pieces.
:spray-bottle: (but also me too it must be the season or something lmao)
It's all the pollen in the air
The plants are spraying their sex dust into the air and as a result you either get turnt off it or like me, you get hay fever and die
I often find myself in a similar position. Not to be weird but if you ever want to talk about it, feel free to DM me. I generally don't feel comfortable talking to any of my irl friends about this either so I feel your pain there.
I think one of the worst things and most difficult things of being a (not shitty) straight male (IDK if you are) is just coming to grips with how ridiculously horny you are all the time. Like I'm always stealing glances at womens asses at work, being horny, thinking about sex, thinking about kissing, fucking, blowing, sucking, chucking, hucking, etc
I probably have a higher than normal sex drive but it always bothered me just how much I would want to have sex if I was in a relationship. I'm quickly approaching wizard status so I doubt I'll find a girlfriend at my age given the circumstances of my life but I've never really liked the idea of like, imposing yourself on others. It's just so weird to me. Like shit you mean my shit gets hot and bothered and I just want to give some pretty girl a thing or two? It's just fucking weird man. It kind of makes me uncomfortable. I realize a lot of women are just as horny as men but I kinda just wish I didn't have sexual desires a lot of the time because of how weird it makes me feel to be so horny all the time.
Perhaps I just otherize women too much, like I feel like they're going to break or something if you have sex with them. A lot of this probably stems from me having talked to girls like 4 times ever in my life, but I think I've developed like left wing inceldom where instead of being some weird, perverted racist misogynist you just read Engels and think about respecting women and their feelings while running ten miles to forget how lacking in emotional and sexual intimacy you are
I think I’ve developed like left wing inceldom where instead of being some weird, perverted racist misogynist you just read Engels and think about respecting women and their feelings while running ten miles to forget how lacking in emotional and sexual intimacy you are
Hi please stop spying on me
Left wing inceldom is certainly a thing. I spent my entire youth not talking to girls because I was afraid that I would somehow make them feel uneasy by imposing my horniness on them. I didn't want to be one of those guys. My anxiety disorder latched on to a belief I had and used it against me.
I know. This is not really a gendered issue. It's more an issue of being afraid to connect to other people.
I think one of the worst things and most difficult things of being a (not shitty) straight male (IDK if you are) is just coming to grips with how ridiculously horny you are all the time.
Not limited to straight males tbh
Yeah I kinda wish I could turn such thoughts off in my mind and go about my day in peace.
I'm pretty sure that everyone has some contact on like discord or telegram with an anime avatar who's more than willing to talk about this
People go a little hard on the anti-horny action here, but honestly most people are a bit horny sometimes and want to talk about shit with friends.
Yeah. The best way to do that is going to be finding a specific friend you can talk to about that type of thing. And it can be difficult to not have someone you can vent to or talk about that.
We're welcome to listen, but keep in mind we will be recording everything you say :volcel-judge:
I've been having problems recently because I'm so lonely that whenever I try to masturbate I can't actually cum because I can't stay focused on the horniness; the loneliness keeps seeping through. I haven't had a lot of positive sexual experiences in my life so its hard for me to masturbate without feeling like there are holes in my imagination. It makes me feel kinda empty and hollow.
I think this is literally the exact opposite symptom compared to you but overall I think the causes are similar. We both are unable to understand and express our sexuality the way we want to, to others and ourselves, because of our complicated histories and lack of comfort-ability with our sexuality in general.
You could try writing in detail exactly how you feel and why. Maybe you'll find a way to express it that is more palatable to other people. Honestly though? Just fucking ask them. Hey I have some awkward things I've been wanting to vent about, is it ok if I talk to you about something relating to some sexual/sexuality related issues?
Even if they say no you're still showing that you value their opinion and view them as a confidante. Better yet think of something fun to talk about right after so you can change the subject real quick. Maybe next time you have something fun happen and you're going to tell someone just wait until after trying to vent to them. That way they won't really remember it the awkward thing.
This is something that therapy could be good for, if you can manage to get access to it.
i think this is what phone sex numbers were for in like the 1980s. there's probably some kind of chatbot now lmao
yea they uh definitely don't exist now, today, and you can just look up the number on the internet. uhh :side-eye-1: :side-eye-2:
Also how deep does a convo about being horny go anyways? Yeah I'd love a nice piece of ass to play knick knack paddy whack with, but what are the intricacies of such a convo?
I’ve got some gender questions for my trans friends
Bring it on!
Unless by friends you meant irl friends and not random hexbear ppl lol
I can’t imagine any scenario where I’m any happier transitioned vs just acting cis because of the sheer amount of societal hatred I’d receive outweighing the benefits.
I relate to that so hard. I’m agender and I’m only out to like three people irl and I might keep it that way for maybe the rest of my life. It sucks but hey, at least I have the three people, and they’re pretty cool! I’m glad that at least 1/4 of your friends seem like they’d be supportive of you too. Something’s better than nothing.
Best of luck on your search for answers :cat-trans:
Why if I wanted to be the one getting paddy whacked, ever thought about that?! I thought so. 😤
:spray-bottle: (There was once a dirty talk thread though idk)
It was during the worst of covid and we were all realllllly horny
There's a comment in one video where the top comment with over a thousand likes is a guy just talking about his anhedonia
"It's hard to remember the last time I felt happy...."
If you have a good friend who is not sexually aligned with you, meaning you two have sexual and gender identities which do not include each other, and is in a relationship and also knows you well and is mature, that would be ideal. However, most people don't have that. Make an account that doesn't lead back to you(no email account or name) and say some weird stuff on some forum or site to get it out of your system if you really need to.
Stay right where you are, Horndog McGruff will be on the scene soon
