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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    6 months ago
    tucking question

    So like what happens if the balls don't stay in the inguinal canals, like at all? I mean not even for a second? I guess I could be really good at muffing since the entrances are so fuckin slippery.

    Tucking madeline-sadeline

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        I mean based tbh, but when I go out I'd rather not have people be weird...

      • Yor
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        15 days ago

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    • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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      6 months ago
      what I do for tucking

      I don't stuff my testicles up in my inguinal canals, unless I'm planning in wearing the shortest shorts possible. It all just kinda gets stuffed under, I also use tucking panties so it keeps it all nice and secure enough for scrubs/jeans/skirts. That minimal tucking sucks and I do it for 12 hours in a row at work (people are not cool about girls with buldge when working with kids), I don't know how long I could do the full tight tuck. Probably a few hours. You probably need some tighter panties or tucking panties if you wanna keep your testicals up in there.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago
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        I had a set of small panties somewhere, Idk where they went. Also Idk how you do "just stuff it all under", I feel like mine wouldn't really fit? I should get specific underwear though...

        • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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          6 months ago
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          Grower priviledge~ The tucking panties do most of the stuffing work. They're not small, they're like boy shorts. They're tight and firm. You'll figure it out, I literally just bend the whole package back underneath near the perianal zone. Try some stuff and see what works.

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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          6 months ago
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          Specific underwear definitely helps. Like, doubling/tripling up on basic panties can also sorta work, but still not as good things meant for it IME. Unfortunately, they don't come cheap and YMMV as usual...

      • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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        6 months ago
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        That minimal tucking sucks and I do it for 12 hours in a row at work (people are not cool about girls with buldge when working with kids)

        I'm lucky in that I hardly notice it. I pee often enough to get some brief fresh air.

        But like... I'm also the type who'd miss a broken bone if I didn't know better to check my body after an accident. Actually, one time it was someone else who noticed. before me (but that was just a pinky toe, so it barely counts).

      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        minimal tucking sucks and I do it for 12 hours in a row at work (people are not cool about girls with buldge when working with kids)

        :yea: that sucks

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      6 months ago
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      muffing

      lea-think I wonder what this means, let me look it up...

      monke-beepboop What the hell stress

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        What, you only learning about this now? You never read the ultraclassic Trans zine Fucking Trans Women by Mira Fucking Bellweather???

        I've never tried it fwiw, seemed uncomfortable plus health concerns. Thought it was cool though, very formative zine for me.

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          6 months ago

          You must be forgetting how new I am to this whole thing. I don't even know enough to parse that second sentence. edit: okay, I see its a short book now

          Yea I really don't see how you could get anything out of that.

              • ashinadash [she/her]
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                6 months ago

                Oh nice mario-thumbs-up

                It's a bit of a historical document now, being from 2008, but I think it's a useful brain-opener. Lotta cool and interesting ideas.

      • TerminalEncounter [she/her]
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        6 months ago
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        Muffing is cool actually, nice and intimate, fucking a girls lil canals is awesome. I dunno about bottoming for it but from what I've seen it's appreciated

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          6 months ago
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          Sorry if it sounded like/if I was trashing it, it just didn't do anything for me and wasn't something I had thought of doing for pleasure. Glad other people like it.

      • magi [null/void]M
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        6 months ago

        You learn something every day! bridget-smug

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        Not always for the better cringe

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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      6 months ago
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      I think I mostly just use the shaft to hold things up while I pull up the underwear. Sometimes they slip out on the sides and I start over, but usually it works good enough for me. But I just prefer the feeling of tucking; it has nothing to do with appearances since I'm mostly doing it under men-style khaki pants at work anyways. Not sure how well it works for the over long periods.

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        6 months ago

        I do really support just rocking the bulge honestly, should prolly be more normalised.

        I think I'd just like having a flat front for once I guess...

        • EstraDoll [she/her]
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          6 months ago

          god knew i would be too powerful if i could wear leggings to show off my massive dick and dumptruck ass so transphobia had to be invented about it

          • magi [null/void]M
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            6 months ago

            I got the dumptruck ass but being intersex got the micropeen so I don't have to worry about tucking makima-huh