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  • Tomboymoder [she/her, pup/pup's]
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    4 months ago

    I’m more at a leggings vibe rn myself.
    Although I’d like to try wearing a skirt at my sister’s wedding.

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      leggins look so comfy, but I'm not sure how they'd actually be (because of the balls). If I like tucking I think they definitely seem like they could be a fav.

            • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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              4 months ago

              I remember seeing someone on a forum like a decade ago with Klinefelters talking about how their penis was so smol that when non-erect, they had an innie. I was very clearly envious, but they were a guy, so didn't even consider that could count as gender envy at the time.

              • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
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                4 months ago

                always fun to go through memories of looking at the dick and feeling bad about it, wondering why that is and then coming to the conclusion it's because it's smol

                later on realising that i just fucking hate it and want to rip it off lea-dysphoric thank fuck it's small atleast, easier to hide

                • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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                  4 months ago

                  Wish I could relate. Never had insecurities about being too smol, but also can't say I hated it either. Would have preferred an innie to and outie, but that was always a "too bad, oh well" kind of thing. Orchis, otoh, were something I realized I'd be happy to have an excuse to get around the same time, but I just blamed that on secret shame about sexuality that was so secret I was unaware of it. Should have probably have noticed a trend, but I never thought those two thoughts were remotely related.

      • TheDoctor [they/them]
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        4 months ago

        Personally I don’t tuck I just wear underwear underneath. I have a gaff that I wear sometimes for lighter colored leggings, but black leggings are my most common type of pants and for those I just need regular underwear. It also helps that I wear longer shirts a lot of the time.

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          Oh really? That's exciting to hear, I assumed leggings would be really hard for me/trans women to wear.

          • TheDoctor [they/them]
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            4 months ago

            I think it varies based on your situation down there and I got lucky in that sense. But I started out wearing them around the house and in that case it really doesn’t matter. My ass looks better than ever in them, as do my thighs. Looking at my thighs in leggings was the first time I ever found my own body attractive.

            • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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              4 months ago

              Yea, I'm sure it does. We'll see if hrt can help me out eventually.

              I still can't believe cis people find themselves attractive. One day I'll be wearing leggings and looking at my thighs though sicko-wistful I'm guessing I'll feel the same way.

              • ashinadash [she/her]
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                4 months ago

                You will get to the "staring into the mirror preening" stage!! meow-hug It slaps ngl.

    • Luna [she/her]M
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      4 months ago

      I wish I could get leggings to work, but I need to wear some sort of skirt or shorts over them to hide certain details 😑