After spending a couple days interacting with them, I have come to agree with the common sentiment hexbear already had that it's probably not worth trying to persuade a small number of steadfast neoliberals among those of us with limited patience, which includes myself.

If I'm a wimp and you still want to go buck wild, of course.

But the suggestion I got that .ee would probably be a better staging ground is at this point taken to heart. Since we are federated with them, I think the thing to do is make (appropriate, non-hostile) posts in .ee communities where the purpose of the comm adequately fits with topics that it would be useful to discuss.

As with my last post, which was misbegotten, it's just a thought I had

  • thebartermyth [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    I swear I'm not saying this just to be mean, but the other problem is that lemmy.world is really boring. Like, actually go through the .world front page and imagine having to respond - even positively - to the majority of these posts.

    • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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      2 months ago

      Something I've realized with them is that liberals are just completely incurious about the world. They just want to repeat the stuff they know over and over forever, it's the same arguments every time. You can't discuss things like history or theory or really anything that isn't about signaling you're on their side in the presidential race. It sucks.

  • tamagotchicowboy [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    I still try to antagonize on reddit, it's feels more like that picture of the jester and the dogs with a touch of Jurassic park, move too fast and they ban your ass, move slow af and maybe bit by bit like water shaping the grand Canyon, but sometimes you get them to snap TF, had some neolib snap against capitalism with some egging on using a horror world anecdote and leaving it open ended enough for him to fill in the blank and not resist.

    Best thing I've found is showing the just world deal a lot of naive neolibs (not the ones fed by it and comfortably aware of it) is pure happy horseshit, and the whole blaming human nature for the flaws of capitalism is a scam/logical error depending the audience on there.

  • queermunist she/her@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    I like arguing with reddit.world but I have a terrible sickness, no one should be like me!

    I don't actually believe online debate works. So, if you want to agitate, it has to be nonconfrontational at its core. Once there is conflict people just get dug in to the preexisting notions, and because online discourse is so depersonalized there can be no way to bridge that gap. At that point you're just another random encounter in the posting RPG.

  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    Does .ee have cool comms? I can be really annoying if that helps!

    • thelastaxolotl [he/him]
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      2 months ago

      .ee is one of the instances that survives of other instances comms to get posts, they have a few big comms but most of their users sub to other instances for posts.

    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
      hexagon
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      2 months ago

      In the first draft of the post, I was going through comms and picking out potentially relevant ones before deciding it was superfluous and also there were too many comms. They've got lots of comms for news and issues centering on various parts of the world, a dedicated "Israeli crimes" comm in addition to their Palestine comm. "Collapse" had potential to go either way, which is fitting.

      Anyway, it's not too hard to search them if there's anything specific that you're looking for: https://lemm.ee/communities

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        a dedicated "Israeli crimes" comm in addition to their Palestine comm.

        Damn you make .ee sound kinda rad.

        • GarbageShoot [he/him]
          hexagon
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          2 months ago

          They've got some cool ones but also a Conservative and a Neoliberal comm. It's a severely mixed bag in the style of old Reddit. They do have cool comms though.

          • heggs_bayer [he/him]
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            2 months ago

            Their neoliberal comm is a ghost town. The last post was a year ago, there's only one page of posts, and all the posts are by the comm's mod. Very few comments too.

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
              hexagon
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              2 months ago

              Good point. I didn't investigate their comms very closely after a while, but I probably should have looked before I mentioned it like it was a real thing. I think I just assumed because there's a bit more activity on Conservative.

      • thelastaxolotl [he/him]
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        2 months ago

        I think instead of focusing in interacting with users from an specific instance, we should instead focus on popular/active comms from other instances like maybe global news from lemmyzip, science memes from mander or the many movie/tv comms from ee

    • PointAndClique [they/them]
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      2 months ago

      Please, .ee isn't ready for Skyrim takes (they totally sre and you should do it)

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        Not to slander all of .ee, the two users from that instance in the Skyrim thread were such utter smuglords. The vast majority of other users were reasonable but reading those two was like teleporting to gamefaqs.

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    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
      hexagon
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      2 months ago

      I saw that person too, though not whatever protracted discourse went down. I'm not saying we can reach anyone anywhere. Hell, I don't think we can reach everyone on Hexbear. I just think we can reach enough people that it's worth a shot.

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    • blame [they/them]
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      2 months ago

      wow who could have anticipated that thread would go places

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  • sudoer777@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    I wrote on .world that progressives losing interest in Harris was her own fault for being a conservative and supporting a genocide, and they just downvoted me and accused me of being a troll.

  • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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    2 months ago

    There's no shame in trying and correcting course when you realize it wasn't leading you down the right path.

  • LaughingLion [any, any]
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    2 months ago

    honestly id rather slam my dick in a car door than engage with any of these people

  • Barx [none/use name]
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    2 months ago

    I have infinite patience and am happy to be a soldier in the posting wars. If you are patient enough, liberal replying in bad faith eventually just tire themselves out, descending into a childish, repetitive rage.

    Combine that with someone else dunking and making fun of them and you've got what's known as the complete package.

    It's not for everyone, though. Lemmy.world folks can rapidly get very racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc.

  • bumpusoot [any]
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    2 months ago

    Aw, don't retract. The reality with these things is always that the person you're arguing with will practically never change their mind, but other people who view the conversation might. I don't think agitating on .world is for many people, probably very few, but I would argue it results in something.