• TripleZ@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 days ago

    If you've invited a lib into your apartment, it's entirely on you. Don't be surprised if they start colonizing your apartment and call it "Aid" or "Democracy" or something.

    • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      Yeah, it's like inviting a vampire into your home and then being surprised when it tries to drink your blood.

      If you don't invite a lib in, they're bound by arcane laws of civility to stay out.

      • CloutAtlas [he/him]
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        4 days ago

        The scorpion wouldn't sting me while on my back, then we'd both die.

  • shath [comrade/them]
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    4 days ago

    "hosting is letting people do whatever the fuck they want actually"

    fuck off, you can wait outside

  • Thallo [she/her, he/him]
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    4 days ago

    I can't tell people not to I touch things in my apartment? Fucking what?

    Don't these people worship property and ownership?

    • machiabelly [she/her]
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      4 days ago

      Only as a convenient vehicle for dominating their surroundings. The moment it conflicts with what they want they snap.

    • CloutAtlas [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      "Please don't touch my emotional support ball of radium and asbestos"

      "Fuck you, I'm the guest, I do whatever I want"

    • DragonBallZinn [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      The thing about western individualism is the ethos is “fuck you, no one tells ME what to do!”

      The keyword is ME. Individualism is thinking rules are beneath you, but hypocritically, rules should only apply to other people.

    • jack [he/him, comrade/them]
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      4 days ago

      They worship their own property. The property of non-white people is being misused or underutilized, and therefore it is their right and responsibility to take control of it.

    • AndJusticeForAll [none/use name]
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      4 days ago

      They care about property, not possessions. It's why they're anti-piracy even if you're only using your own possessions to do it.

  • TraschcanOfIdeology [they/them, comrade/them]
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    4 days ago

    This is the stupidest take on hospitality I've ever seen. This person needs to be beaten over the head with a copy of Derrida's "On Hospitality" until they become unconscious or learn something, whichever happens first.

  • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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    4 days ago

    As a cracker, when I enter someone's house I immediately go to their couch and begin rubbing my dirty shoes into it while yelling "fuck your couch!"

    • Hexphoenix [any]
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      4 days ago

      Finally! I'm not alone! We experimental homunculi gotta stick together and stand up for our rights to be filthy piggies

    • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      Do some crackers actually wear their outside shoes in bed? I see it in movies sometimes and it's such an absurd annoying detail.

      • Dolores [love/loves]
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        4 days ago

        that's just convenient for films, not a documentary detail of yankee lifestyle. im sure somebody does it tho

        • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
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          4 days ago

          I did it once as a kid because I was so excited to go on a trip. I went to bed in my clothes, all picked out. Shoes on. Ready to face the day. So excited I could barely sleep.

          We of course left the house one hour later than intended because my family are perpetually tardy.

          And that's the origin story of my villain arc.

  • Zrc [she/her]
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    4 days ago

    Please don't ask people to not shit on your floor when entering your apartment. It's rude.

    When you invite people into your home, you need to let go. You can't be like, "You can't piss there" and "You have to stop shitting everywhere" and "If you jerk off in my living room, you are in trouble." Hosting is letting your guests enjoy themselves.

  • Xavienth@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 days ago

    Hosting is letting you guests enjoy themselves

    I will simply not be friends with anyone whose idea of comfort is shoes on in the house. Freakish behaviour.

  • dkr567 [comrade/them, he/him]
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    4 days ago

    Why do they not want to take off their shoes when they're someones' place? I don't understand the weird hills these jackass white libs want to die on.

  • DragonBallZinn [he/him]
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    4 days ago

    porky-happy: "You see, workers should have no rights because here in the west, we have a huge culture of respecting people's property!"

  • Call Me Mañana@lemmy.ml
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    4 days ago

    People of colonial complexion apparently have a different definition of what is "rude". In any Latin American country I know, for example, "rude" is doing whatever you want in other people's homes. What to expect from a culture that normalizes staying in bed with shoes on. And if you're supposed to act like you're at home wherever you are, why leave your house?

    • huf [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      it's the individualization of the mindset of colonialism. so at least they're being consistent here.

    • CloutAtlas [he/him]
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      4 days ago

      Well you see, the cumskins are correct, which is why they had to go all over the planet to tell brown people how wrong and barbaric their version of hospitality is. If white people's customs aren't objectively correct, how come all the other cultures are inferior?

    • ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]
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      4 days ago

      To be real I thought the expectation was always "someone else's house, their rules" and this article is alarming. Despite being in kkkanada I was raised to obey the rules of whoever's house I am at, it is their space.

    • The_Filthy_Commie@lemmygrad.ml
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      3 days ago

      What else to expect from settler ''culture''. For them it's about doing whatever they want at someone else's house and expense. Like huf said, at least it's consistent.

  • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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    4 days ago

    Wtf I support castle laws now (but only against white libs who refuse to take off their shoes).

  • Yor [she/her]
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    4 days ago

    you're either taking off your shoes at the door or leaving my apartment, so take your pick