If you're non-binary, it's actually only half gay in each direction. If you're bigender I think it's double gay? I tried agender and it said NaN.
Can I still get "NaN" if I failed the kinsey scale test or do I get another thing?
It's funny cause pre-transition, I was "gay" but absolutely did not enjoy gay sex in any way, shape, or form. I was simply heavily attracted to men sexually but not in a male/male fashion. I did this for 15 fucking years I would like to add. Y'think I would've figured things out way before I did.
omg same and it felt so confusing like what do u mean u want sex with men but not gay sex?? that took embarrassingly long to figure out
Me: femme
Me: not attracted to men
My brain: actually, you like dressing femme to attract men
Me:
You like dressing femme to attract all the butch lesbians, obviously
ur brain is so dum. tell them i said this
things feel straight when they are gay and gay when they are straight and it all sucks shit and feels like garbage
I read your comment and immediately my mind went to Dr. Nick saying “Well, if it isn't my old friend Mr. McGreg, with a leg for an arm and an arm for a leg!” and I started laughing uncontrollably. Which made my day. So, thank you.
I'm a big ol' hairy cis man and my partner is NB, and they told me recently this is exactly how they reacted when they met me.
Sex with a man is inherently gay
Unless it's a straight man having sex with a woman. That is also gay, because they should be having sex with a man, which is not gay, but only for them.
i thought i was pansexual before transition but it just turns out penises are fine when they're attached to lady's
so i'm basically the opposite, where i start turning into a flustered moron every time I find myself around pretty women whereas men routinely make me want to burn down reality itself
but for a while there when my wires were crossed I found myself enduring the smells and antics of a gender I was priming myself to leave in the dust fully; who knew
either way figuring yourself out is great
The only time I was ever actually interested in men was when gay men were attracted to me. The way straight men look at me is so boring. I can sympathize with the trans women who keep their gay guy partners after transitioning. They're so fun.
But also, stay away from people who aren't attracted to your womanhood. Its fine if you've already developed a connection with them, and thats where the attraction comes from. But, you need to protect yourself! Don't fuck with anyone unless they cherish your womanhood! (or whatever identity you adopt). They will inevitably encourage behaviors that don't make you happy. If gay sex was fully satisfying to you you wouldn't have transitioned. They will act as anchors to the past you need to move beyond.
The less empathetic and subby you are the less this probably matters. I just think people aren't careful enough with their emotions when it comes to sex.
We need to stop immigration from straight countries...at least until we figure out what's going on with them! Just for a while.....
Me: only really started to be interested in men after starting transitioning
Also me:
I have the opposite to this being in a relationship with a woman and being like "ohhhhh holy fucking shit dude im straighttt im fucking straighttt oh fuck oh shit im sTRAIGHTTTT im fucking STRAIGHTTTTTTTTTTTTTT", as I'm wearing silky lingerie, a corset, make up, have long hair, no body hair and are getting topped.
