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complaining about clothes
Wow, I just fucking love how any clothes I want only fit either my waist or hips. I was looking at yoga pants yesterday. Large fits my hips, XXL fits my waist. So like wtf do I even buy? It's like this for damn near all girl clothes too. Even the shirts have both measurements listed. Skirts, shorts, same thing. I feel like whatever I buy isn't going to fit me right and I'll feel awful.
It's hard to find clothes that fit, I would recommend going to a thrift if they have changing rooms try stuff on and write down the sizes or make a note of them.
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If you get it, get the tiktok ass tights. They work, it will give you a larger femmer ass than you thought you had
Good suggestion, thank you.
question: what do i put into google to look up what those are called? unless those are what they're called
Tiktok butt tights? Something like that
"Butt lift leggings" seems to be the proper name from what I'm getting back from Google, for what it's worth
TikTok ass tights?
Butt Lift High Waist Yoga Pants is my guess and I can confirm that yoga pants will give you a good shape
Yoga pants or tights? both can give you a nice ass shape
Could you get the L and just wear them at your hips? I know they are designed to be worn at the waist, but it might be fine.
Yea, probably what I'll do. Everyone talks about how high waisted stuff is better though so that's made me want to make it work. But if it can't sit that high I guess I'll just do what I can.
High waisted skirts are better because the way it flares out a little makes your hips look wider and waist thinner. Pants matter way less. Although high waisted pants fuck hard too, they're just not as big of a deal.
Oh, it's just the skirts where it matters so much? That's great, maybe I've been over thinking the exact sizing.
Even with skirts like, it doesn't matter that much. It's something nice that can help with passing but isn't necessary for the outfit. I just also really fucking like how high waisted stuff looks
Hmm, okay. It just looked like a lot of clothes in general are supposed to sit higher on women, and I guess I was just worried about how they would sit on me with fat distribution still being pretty masc. Maybe I was too worried, I just want clothes that fit. Thank you.
griping about clothes
Sometimes I find stuff that seems weird, like trousers cut for someone who is taller than me but also skinnier than my goofy ass??? Stuff like that. Or my arms are too fuckin long. It can be tough to find anything that fits...
I just want like one or two things that fit until I can shop irl
They removed change rooms at the local thrift recently, so while you can eyeball stuff I have this problem too lol. But yeah this shit sucks and it's a very common problem.
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I've personally used Aliexpress for a lot of my leggings shopping, funnily enough they are really large, like I use these a lot and got the M size even though my waist is definitely not M sized.
From my experience with leggings anyway you want the waist to be tighter than what they advertise, belly fat gives away but hips are going to be bone at some point. You're a tall girl, cutie so if your tallness comes from legs you should mostly focus on length as well as hips. The waist is whatever in most cases. You DO NOT want the waist to be too loose though, nothing as fucking annoying as having to pick up your leggings constantly
Ooh, thank you. I need to figure out how to navigate aliexpress better, probably save myself a lot of money. Thanks for the recommendation
Yea, all my leggings fit me weird. The women’s ones assume I have a bigger waist but the rest fits. The “meggings” are way too long because they didn’t expect me to be thicc.
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Hahaaa didn't you know that all women are just barbie shaped meaty sex dolls and it's not worth making feminine clothes for anyone else? How silly of you to expect otherwise
It really is, the struggle is real.