Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

That's all for now! To wrap thing up I would like to invite yall to our public matrix server! https://matrix.to/#/#tracha:chapo.chat

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    • pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.ml
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      1 month ago

      https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pidgin_Delaware#Treatment_of_gender

      More of linguistic interest, Pidgin Delaware, a simplified amalgam of local, indigenous languages used for trade with Europeans, used two linguistic genders. Unlike European languages, however, the genders aren't masculine and feminine but rather animate and inanimate.

      • Feline
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        30 days ago

        Unlike European languages, however, the genders aren't masculine and feminine but rather animate and inanimate.

        This is how proto-indoeuropean is thought to have developed! And then over time, the animate gender became masculine, and inanimate feminine (probably reflecting the patriarchal society)

        • vovchik_ilich [he/him]
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          27 days ago

          Russian language still has weird declensions with animate and inanimate stuff in some cases, very interesting

    • Thallo [she/her]
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      1 month ago

      https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muxe#:~:text=In%20Zapotec%20cultures%20of%20Oaxaca,seen%20as%20a%20third%20gender.

  • gaystyleJoker [she/her]
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    1 month ago

    hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

    the list as it stands:

    SwitchyWitchyandBitchy (12/2 - 12/8)
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    ​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

  • Yukiko [she/her]M
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    29 days ago

    Whoamg my boobs are so huge now AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    I’m in a ton of pain though. But I’m alive so woo! And my chest has melons on it! party-blob

  • AshenWolf [she/her]M
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    1 month ago

    I got gendered correctly today. Had someone calling out "sir, sir", trying to ask me for directions. I turn to face them, and they look confused. "Sir, Ma'am, I can't tell with the mask on". I took my shot, put on my best fem voice. I had mastered the talk-no-jutsu, my voice training was about to pay off. I looked at the person, and proceeded to ignore most of the training, just changing pitch and speaking more softly. It still worked, I got called ma'am. They later apologized for getting it wrong, and I just said no worries. No eyebows. No stare. No disgust.

    I've done it, I've won :keikaku:

  • Tommasi [she/her, pup/pup's]
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    1 month ago

    I saw my mom for the first time in a few months today, and she asked me if I'm aware I'm starting to look just like her and that seeing me was basically like seeing herself catgirl-huh

    Officially in the estrogen making you look like your mom gang

  • yewler [she/her]
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    1 month ago

    I stood up for myself and my gender for the first time today. A friend kept degendering me and I asked him not to.

    Kind of a small thing but I feel proud of myself since I've always had a poor self esteem

  • whatnots [he/him, it/its]
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    1 month ago

    i love my fatness! i love my queerness! my fat queer body is beautiful and sexy!!!! kirby-spin

    • hexbee [she/her]
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      1 month ago

      Hell fucking yes, let's gooo ᕙ⁠(͡⁠°⁠‿⁠ ͡⁠°⁠)⁠ᕗ

  • Yukiko [she/her]M
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    29 days ago

    In the hospital for my top surgery. I’ll see all you folks on the other side :3

  • Yor [she/her]
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    30 days ago

    today I just want to lay in bed and listen to music, but I have to work 😒

  • Thallo [she/her]
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    26 days ago

    How come all of the people I haven't come out to yet are always misgendering and deadnaming me? Kinda fucked up.

    Pretty transphobic, ngl

  • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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    29 days ago
    absolutely unrestrained gushing

    OKAY so have you ever just heard someone's voice and it makes you just kinda fucking melt? Yeah, that's me, every time I hear her voice... its somehow comforting and sexy at the same time and I just kinda want to keysmash everytime we voice chat and I kinda get a little nervous and flustered and sometimes have a little difficulty talking but that's nice too because I can generally just be quiet around her too and that's really cool.

    ugh she's so great chat ugh

  • Tomboymoder [she/her, pup/pup's]
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    1 month ago

    I haven’t gone swimming in years.
    I used to love swimming.
    I wish I could do it without worrying about how I look or body image issues or other people.