I mean, relationships are a grab bag, particularly at a young age.
My only hesitation here is that a lot of people are going to consider neurodivergent people "weird" at first impression and that that reaction is one that should be fought rather than followed unquestioningly.
Like I absolutely support following your gut when it comes to this but.... I guess this is one of those areas where I feel that feminism that anti-ableism don't intersect perfectly cleanly.
Yeah I knew what you meant I just thought it was important to point out that "weird" has other connotations.
This is very true, thanks for raising the point. At the end of the day "weird" is such a clumsy word that it's probably not a good universal benchmark for evaluating someone as a romantic or sexual partner.
Counterpoint: Giving anyone a chance (that is trying to get to know them) is about basic respect and is cool and good.
I think there’s a middle ground here. Writing someone totally off cuz they gave a weird first impression is probably not a great practice, if only cuz you maybe denying yourself a good connection. But on the flip side, if they’re a decent person who’s just awkward and weird it should become apparent quick. If you still get weirdo vibes an hour or two in their probably just weird.
I advocated for the middle ground though but for some reason "giving someone a chance" always gets interpreted as "have sex with them" (probably because a lot of incels mean it that way).
Giving people a chance is about getting to know them not letting them fuck you
Didn't he have Aspergers? That alone would qualify him as the weird guy to most people.
As I posted elsewhere in here, this is kind of my hesitation with "rejecting the weird guy outright is a good practice".
Sounds like the weird guy should get his dick checked out if it takes that long to nut.
For me most of my orgasms "stack," so you have like four or five with only a couple minutes in between. It is exhausting but it's pretty easy for me to hit a number like thirteen if I'm taking time for it.
Would anyone actually count their orgasms like that? Seems super weird...
Yup. Sometimes. For funsies. Edit: but I also get the dumbs so doesnt last beyond 2-3
Back when I was on a body writing kick, I had kind of a fantasy of someone tying me down and keeping tally marks on my thighs, but outside of a kink thing Idk 🤷🏻♀️
Rem's ideas, people like them folks, they're very hot (sexy!), people read them and get turned on, more and more people are saying it
I could have subscribers 😱
We need this feature uwu
Thirsty boys and girls and enbies listening to me pontificate about horny stuff yess :party-blob:
And that man's name: Beto O'Rourke. Let's give him a second chance, America.
My man has never had sex with a woman much less done a good job of it. If my wife has more than one or two it’s typically time to tap out. Like, love muscles get tired lol and fast. 13 orgasms though?! At least make your lie believable!
some women can have them more often than you'd think is possible, most don't though. I dated a girl who did and yeah she was crazy easy to please. every other girl I've been with wasn't like that tho
the internet is ridiculous about sex, I had a guy on reddit scour though my comments and say that I was a virgin cus I made a comment (in a thread about the topic) about an ex squirting once. lots of people seem to think that if they haven't personally seen it then it doesn't exist
the female version of guys wincing in empathy when they see someone get their balls smashed
I prefer both of us have a strong orgasm at the same time than her cumming a bunch of times.
My girlfriend prefers a one time forgiveness when starting a new business in a disadvantaged community to clitoral stimulation. It takes all kinds.
I mean, it does sound fake af, but my ex-gf had twelve in one night, and I am the weird guy.
:humble-brag:
Some people here have jumped to conclusions so fast in the effort to dunk on a probable Nice Guy™/proto-incel that they broke the needle and looped back to asshole. Like this probably never happened because:
- Normal people don't post on reddit (actually normal sane people just don't post in general)
- Normal people definitely don't post their sex stories to reddit unprompted
But leaving room for circumstances the stated events can happen. 13 is on the unlikely side but is in the correct order of magnitude. That a dude can't cum easily through penetrative intercourse is more common than people realize.
Normal people definitely don’t post their sex stories to reddit unprompted
Speak for yourself
I think people like yelling things into anonymous voids. I think more people would be into posting personal shit (made up or not) on Reddit if more people knew what Reddit was.
more people knew what Reddit was
that's why I said Reddit and not Twitter
but is in the correct order of magnitude
if we're doing order of magnitude calculations here that number could get terrifying pretty easy :kombucha-disgust:
True but like people will get it what I mean. The formalist in me did just that right now so I don't look like a fool. If people think the OoM of 4 is possible than by definition it'll include 13 as well as 31. So I wouldn't write a paper on it or anything but people will get it. Vernacular vs. Scientific context and everything.
Oh yeah, I get that and you're right, I just think its a fucking hilarious way to talk about orgasms of all things. Catch me using estimates to make my mid-getting-dicked-down calculations easier lmao
you don't keep a tally every time so you can rule out outliers in your data for your predictive model? Weird.
